If there is a man who says he loves you very much, but feels that he is just paying lip service and doesn't have much practical action, should he be chosen? Thank you for your answers.

1, if you only talk about married life, you should know your answer after reading this passage. Your countless fantasies about your future life point to the trend of separation. The only thing that can make you hesitate is matter. The question now is how likely you are to get this material benefit.

It is an important aspect that mature women consider getting married in order to get material benefits from him for the rest of their lives. Let's not say that men with high ability to control such substances are generally accompanied by high risk of "small three" or "red flag not falling". Let's see if you can "sacrifice" your marriage for a stable state-owned enterprise job. Look at what you said. This man's self-centered male chauvinism is heavier. If I were him, I wouldn't let you go to work. I honestly do housework at home and take care of the elderly with my children. Since I have a car, a house and a good income, why do I need you to go to work? It is estimated that this may not necessarily stabilize the work of state-owned enterprises. I suggest you don't care too much about his material temptation. You have the ability to control one rich man, and so can another rich man. If you are not a woman who controls the rich, you may dump you when you meet the rich. Don't pay too much attention to whether he has money, but to whether you have the ability to make rich people not dump you.

In your passage, there is still little information. Since this man is so excellent, it should not be difficult to find a virtuous red flag that can occasionally surprise you when you leave the hall in the kitchen. Being able to care if you don't call, cook or wash clothes shows that your driving ability is not low. I suggest that your age, family and health should be considered comprehensively, and you should not jump to conclusions. Your future life will freeze your heart. If I were this man, I hope you will come to live together in place A for the first time and give up everything in place B. If you don't come, I will change to another woman. If he doesn't change, I'll let you continue to show that I still care about you. If I don't buy you a ticket, I may prompt you to wash clothes and cook, just to see if you want money or really have feelings for him. This is even possible. In short, the biggest consideration in making a choice now is whether this man really wants to marry you.

In short, you have given too little information. I can only suggest a general direction. First, your expectations for the rest of your material life are greater than those for love and marriage. This is mature and correct. Romance and love are nonsense when children want to go to a good school, live in a good house, afford illness and eat good things. You are still hesitating, which shows that you still have a lot of considerations in this regard. Second, in front of the rich, women should not always think about how to stop him from escaping, but always ignore whether they have the ability to control the rich and how to constantly improve themselves to the level of controlling the rich. For a simple example, the rich man's wife is a little fat and a little old. Instead of spending time controlling my husband not to have sex with my little sister, we should be diligent, calm, low-key and elegant, learn to keep our figure, temperament and charm, and at the same time fully let my husband realize that only I can be the woman behind a successful man. Finally, don't be too pessimistic about your love. Men are not good to you and don't necessarily care about you. It is normal for rich people to be self-centered, not to mention single-parent children. Whether they really want to marry you is the most important thing. As long as this man is really responsible for marriage, what about you? Take your time later.

Well, that's all I have to say. For the sake of my sincerity, give me 40 points.