Tell me about some examples of times when you told the truth.

In life, I am a very honest person. It's basically impossible to hide it. Once you have something on your mind, it's almost written on your face, and there's no fuss. Sometimes, when you tell the truth, others will feel at ease and feel that you are sincere enough, and they will be more willing to trust you. However, sometimes, maybe it is because you are too honest, which makes people hate you and avoid you...

There was a time when I was just doing express delivery and I was not familiar with many things. Too understanding. Because I was too honest, I accidentally told some business secrets to my competitors, which later reduced our profit points a lot, which made my partners very angry. I really blamed myself at that time. Why did I have to tell others what they asked me? Is there only yes and no in your world? No, you have many choices. Life is not necessarily a multiple-choice question. It can also be a fill-in-the-blank question or even an essay question. As long as you do it with your heart, God will never treat you badly!

I was particularly impressed by that experience because of my honesty. I remember when I was a freshman, I fell in love with a girl. Because she was not from our school, so many times we could only communicate through QQ and WeChat. But because relying solely on social networks, I think it’s really not enough. Then, I decided to tell her my thoughts clearly and express my love to her. That day, at noon, it was very hot. I took an hour's drive and came to her school. I called her and asked her if she could come out, so I waited for her outside. At that time, it was exactly 12 o'clock at noon. I was standing under a big tree with a lake behind me, and then she came over. I took my time, and after a while I spoke my true thoughts and confessed to her. I was too honest at the time, thinking that as long as I confessed my love, everything would be fine, but in the end, what I got in exchange was "You are a good person!"

However, I am not saying that telling the truth will not do me any good. On the contrary, I feel that telling the truth has helped me a lot.

Many times, when facing the world, I am really ignorant and a beginner. There are many things that I don’t know how to deal with, such as computer failure, how to use some special functions in mobile phones, etc. At this time, I will sincerely ask the other party for advice, and I will not pretend to understand. This really makes me Grow a lot!

Nowadays, everyone is more or less particular about routines no matter what they do. I’m not saying routines are bad! Because some routines can indeed help us better achieve our goals. However, I think it is important that we do not become obsessed with the means and lose sight of the original purpose. Sincerity is actually the best way. Because you treat others sincerely, others will treat you sincerely, the relationship between you will be simpler, and the foundation of trust will be more solid. Many of our male compatriots may have been gentle, kind, responsible and responsible gentlemen before they chased girls. But, after the attack, everyone seemed to reveal their true colors in unison. I really don’t understand what benefit this huge gap will have on your relationship! Think carefully about why you chose to be together in the first place. Now, why was he so lukewarm to her? You will find that what you think is just what you think and is not true!

Now, there are many things that I still don’t know how to do, many things I still don’t understand, and many things I still can’t do. But it doesn't matter, at least I won't pretend to understand. Because I would rather be a beginner who is worthy of myself than an actor who looks perfect to others.