I can keep you young, can you keep me old?

On Saturday, Sister Chen and Sister Zhang brought their children to work.

Both little princesses are very sensible. When everyone is working, they are playing in the corner.

After lunch, everyone sat outside in the sun. Hui Hui's hair was messed up, so her mother found a comb to tie her hair.

"Hui Hui, look, I comb your hair every day. When I am old, you should comb my hair! " Sister Chen's timely education made us all laugh.

"Mom, why don't you comb grandma's hair?" Hui Hui naive lift up your little face.

"You see your grandmother is dirty every day, don't know how to pay attention to, don't even know how to wash her head. It stinks! " Sister Chen looked disgusted.

I usually hear from Sister Chen that her mother is over 60 this year and her waist is not good. It is difficult to bend down to pick up things at ordinary times. Old people don't pay much attention to personal hygiene and have always been rejected by their children.

According to Chen Jie, her life is very stressful. The old people on both sides are old and the children are still young. It is a difficult time for life. Chen Jie's mother-in-law is almost 70 years old, and her lungs are not very good. She coughs from time to time. Chen Jie is worried that it will be harmful to her children's health. So she basically doesn't let her children go to grandma's house. The old man really missed his granddaughter, so he called to listen to the sound.

"Aren't you going to your mother-in-law's house, too?" Sister Zhang asked Sister Chen while wiping her daughter's sweat.

"With her daughter, you don't need me!" Sister Chen said.

People are like this, hoping to be happy while destroying the hopes of others. I really want to ask Sister Chen, if you don't take care of your mother and mother-in-law, why should you be taken care of?

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Sister Zhang is different.

Her father died of illness two years ago, leaving her mother behind. Zhang Jie was not at ease, so she discussed with her husband and took over to live with herself. She said that the old man is around, and he doesn't worry every day, and he is relaxed.

Not long ago, Zhang Jie asked for leave, saying that it was cold and she was afraid that her parents-in-law would catch cold in the countryside, so she went to pick them up and live together. My father-in-law has rheumatism, and winter will be better.

We asked Jason, there are three old people in the family, and the children are still young. Are you tired?

Sister Zhang said: Not tired! Three old people are working hard every day, and the whole family is talking and laughing to do housework. She basically doesn't have to worry about housework.

How lively it is at home. Whenever I go back, there is laughter at home. If you are tired outside, you will feel better as soon as you get home.

Old people get up early and try to get up early to cook. A hot meal for adults and children is basically different every day.

"Look, my Nannan has gained weight!" Sister Zhang picked up her daughter's little face

The three old people discussed shopping, cooking, assigning housework, going downstairs to exercise together, and playing cards together in their spare time.

"Nannan, is grandma dirty?" Mother suddenly asked.

"It's not dirty. My mother will wash the clothes when they are dirty! " Nan Nan said.

"My mother-in-law is so dirty that I don't even want to go to her house." Sister Chen looked disgusted.

"Grandma loves to cough, it's annoying!" Hui Hui's little face, also hung with disgust.

"Then why don't you treat her and wash her clothes?" Nannan's words have no intention.

"We don't live together!" Mom smiled and answered the naive Nannan.

We looked at two mothers and two beautiful little girls, thinking of two different homes, one clean and bright, and a family of three happy; A crowded and cramped family of six is bustling.

I suddenly remembered the joke my father told when I was a child. The man's father died, and the man said to his son:

Come on, son! Throw away the broken bowl your grandfather used, and the dead old man will never use it again!

The son replied, you can't throw it. When you get old, you have to continue to use it!

The old man is old and the children are still growing. Everything a mother says and does will leave a mark on her child's heart. They are pure and kind by nature, and they can't tell much from right and wrong, but they can imitate.

? three

? My grandmother is famous for her bad temper in her hometown. She often scolds her mother loudly for trifles.

One year on New Year's Eve, my mother steamed a large pot of steamed buns, probably because the lid was not tightly closed or something. Some steamed buns are very flat. When my father saw them for the first time, he immediately signaled my mother to try to hide, but grandma still saw them.

Grandma was so angry that she poured a big pot of white flour steamed bread on the garbage dump and began to curse loudly. Despite mom's tears and dad's explanation, our whole family spent that year in the haze of this matter.

Grandma finally can't stand living with her mother. Before the end of the year, she took her things to her uncle's house. I also told everyone about my mother, and many words came back to my mother, which added to my mother's sadness. As a result, for many years, as long as my mother thought about those days, she couldn't eat or sleep.

Later, grandma was old and became blind because of cataract. Soon, she was paralyzed by something. Her father and uncle dragged her to several hospitals and had to stay at home, fearing that her body could not bear major surgery.

Grandma has completely lost her youthful spirit. Because of paralysis, she can hardly take care of herself and needs complete care.

Shortly after her illness, she clamored to come back to my house every day, saying that my house was big and that my mother missed my father.

My mother didn't agree at first, after all, those past events were still stuck in my heart. But when my father came back with my grandmother on his back, my mother had already made a soft and comfortable bed.

In the first few days, my mother didn't go to see her, but silently cooked, washed and arranged the bedding for her.

Once my father was on a business trip and asked my brother and me to take care of my grandmother. Repeatedly told me to feed, water, wipe my ass, change clothes, spread a urine pad, change bedding, wipe excrement and urine ... After hearing this, my mother said to my father:

You go, leave it alone!

Since then, grandma has been taken care of by her mother.

Every morning, my mother goes to cook first, and then washes her face and hands after dinner, and then feeds her spoon by spoon. When the sun is shining, my mother will take grandma to the sofa to bask in the sun and wash grandma's dirty bedding to dry.

Grandma has to pee regularly, so when mom sets the wall clock at home, as soon as she hears the alarm clock ring, she will run to do something.

Every night after seven o'clock, grandma would shout, "Pull, pull."

At this time, my mother is waiting almost full-time, fearing that she will be busy when grandma calls. Grandma knows that her mother is taking care of her, so many times, she says to herself:

"My conscience has discovered, my conscience has discovered!"

Mom didn't speak, but she still buried herself in doing what she should do, but her eyes were red.

Once, my mother cooked a large pot of hot water to give grandma a bath. She got everything ready, came to hug her grandmother, who stretched out a hand and groped for her mother's face and hair. Her vocal cords choked and said:

"Son, mom, I'm sorry. It's really hard for you ... "

They all bowed their heads and began to cry.

Because of my mother's tolerance and filial piety, my brother and I slowly helped to take care of my grandmother until six years later, when she died peacefully in her sleep.

Dad said that no one is a saint. Since they are all ordinary people, who can have no mistakes at all? Parents are human beings, with their personalities, but also with their difficulties. No one is perfect. The kindness of childbirth is greater than the sky. No matter what happens, people can't care when they are old, and they can't care when they are sick.

1 At the beginning of the year, my father had a heart operation, and my brother and I were waiting by. The two men cooperated with each other and took good care of my father. Doctors and nurses, as well as my father's patients, all praised my father for being blessed and filial to both children. My brother said:

"Our family is like this. My parents take care of my grandmother more than we do! "

The ancients said: "Filial piety is filial piety, respect people with courtesy."

Explain that you are filial to your parents and your children are filial to you; You respect others, and others will respect you.

We often say, "Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you." Treat friends and colleagues like this, especially our parents. When we are old and weak, we want to be treated like this. Now, we should treat our parents like this.

With the growth of age, there are more and more reasons not to go home. Busy with work and career, children and parents waited at home, but they were disappointed and forgiven.

Perhaps, a few years later, leaning against the doorframe and looking at the old back of the intersection is us.