How to be a good mother

To be a good mother, you should relax your mind, don't compare with others, and be "stupid" appropriately.

1. Relaxed mother

Tight nerves and anxious emotions will only make mom lose control when facing problems, so you don't have to force yourself to be a perfect mother and relax the tight nerves. Learn to pass the smile on to children. Your smile will infect them and convince them that there is nothing difficult in life.

2. Mom who doesn't compare with others

Every child is unique. Don't compare your child with other children, don't put pressure on him, and let him learn "other people's children" under pressure. Everyone is unique, you don't have to ask your children according to the same standard. Tell children that being yourself is the most important thing. A qualified mother is to help him develop his potential and grow with him during his growth.

3. "Stupid" Mom

When the child asks some questions, the mother might as well throw the questions back to the child. If the child can't answer, you can use other means to help the child answer, such as taking the child to find the answer from a book. No matter how capable a mother is, she should be "stupid" in front of her children, and the children will feel smarter than her mother.