Leverage strength, and ultimately achieve greatness: people with patterns know how to "borrow" these three forces, and they will prosper.

Cao Xueqin once said, "Good wind sent me to Qingyun with its strength."

People should rise step by step, not only by their own strength, but also by the "wind" around them If the wind is strong enough, people will rise faster, or even spend less time and effort.

And if people always do things by themselves, they are not incapable of doing things, but a little stubborn and do not know how to be flexible. Just like a ship, with the strength of wind direction and current, it can go upstream, but without their assistance, there will inevitably be many obstacles in climbing.

Zhuangzi wrote in "A Happy Journey": "If the husband's water is not thick, he can't carry a big boat. The wind is not thick and its negative wing is weak. "

The ship must run on the waves and currents below it; Dapeng wants to fly high, relying on the long-term accumulation of "wind power" under the wings. Whether it is a boat or a Dapeng, it symbolizes the person who borrows.

When people's strength is not enough to support themselves to achieve a career, when people don't want to lose too many of their own resources, they know how to help themselves with the help of others' strength. Such people are the achievers who can "flourish".

People with patterns, who control the overall situation, know that "people make the best use of their talents and things" and make the best use of everything to the extreme, so as to be orderly and watertight. Therefore, such people, their worst result, is only a late bloomer.

Accumulate "resources" for yourself with your own work platform.

A young man, who has just come out to work in the society, inevitably lacks experience and business ability. So, how can they give full play to their advantages and avoid detours?

In fact, one thing is to rely on the advantages of his platform. Just like a young man in sales, if he can integrate his own customer resources while working, and then discuss with his old employees or predecessors and get on well with them, then his future road will actually be smoother.

You know, not everyone will have such a vision. Some people, when they get to a post, only listen to the boss's arrangement, have no opinion of themselves and know nothing about themselves.

In this way, such people, after all, are easy to lose their competitiveness and become outcasts of society. In this society, the most important thing for people to get rich and achieve something is to have their own "resources". Where resources come from is actually accumulated from the original jobs.

Some people who want to start a business, in order to be more stable, must accumulate some customers and understand the operation of the market. Only in this way can they stand out and become the leader in this industry one day in the future.

An entrepreneur once said: "A person's starting point is a person's destination. The key is whether he knows how to use it. "

The "utilization" here is actually "borrowing". Only by relying on the resources of one's position and environment can one gradually accumulate one's "wealth" and flourish.

With the help of "suffering", the Jedi fought back.

Sun Wu once said, "Throw it on the ground and live again, and live again after death."

When a person is in trouble, he has reached a dead end. However, if a person keeps going forward and doesn't know how to turn back, then it is easy for him to hit his head against the south wall and break it.

Why do we often say that "a bright future comes from a bright future"? It is because the road is much more, people will understand the general direction, and when they come to a dead end, they will know how to retreat and escape.

In fact, this is a kind of "borrowing". In this life, not only the job can give you "leverage", but also your mentality and the hardships you have experienced can give you strength.

"Book of Rites. Learn ":"Jade is not cut, it is not a tool; People don't learn and don't know. "

A piece of jade, only with the help of foreign carving power, after a certain period of polishing, can glow with its original brilliance; A person can learn from the past to the present only with the help of external book power and after a certain period of hard work.

No matter people or things, they will eventually go through 81 difficulties to get ahead. The "early days" here were not given to us by others, but we were born to die and won them back with the power of "suffering".

When you are in trouble, maybe you just need to strengthen your will and turn grief into strength. I believe that you can use a moment of bitterness for the rest of your life.

With the help of people around us, we can brainstorm and seek great things.

Mencius once said: "The weather is not as good as the geographical position, and the geographical position is not as good as human harmony."

What can you do more in a complex society? Actually, it's dealing with people. People should not only deal with outsiders, but also learn to deal with their own family and friends.

Why do you say that? Because a person's strength is always limited. Just like chopsticks, it will break if you fold it lightly. But what if these are more than a dozen pairs of chopsticks? It's hard to break it.

You are one of a dozen chopsticks. In this way, relying on the strength of a group of people to deal with the hardships of life is much easier and more stable than one person. This kind of "power" is a kind of "accumulated" power of all people.

Just like discussing a matter, if you think alone, there may be mistakes and mistakes. But if a group of people think and a group of people put forward different opinions, I believe we can brainstorm and ensure that this matter can be carried out smoothly and orderly.

Capable people, they will not walk into a dead end, nor will they always be self-centered. Instead, listen to other people's opinions, accept other people's suggestions, and then pool these resources to form their own way of thinking and ability.

If a person wants to achieve something, he can't rely on himself after all. Just like a building, no matter how skilled you are, you can only accomplish what you can, and what others can't, you must work together.

In the workplace, if you want to achieve something, you should listen to the advice of different people around you, then think for yourself, weigh the pros and cons, distinguish the pros and cons, and then start doing things. It's not too late.

In the family, if you want to have a happy family life and a better life, you must plan your later life with your family, listen to the needs of others, and then integrate into your own needs. Then, life in the future will not be too bad.

The biggest pattern of a person is that he can accept people and things with different opinions. People, only by borrowing, can better "play hard", accumulate their confidence and strength, and usher in the day when "you don't have to sing, you will make a blockbuster".

Text/There are deer in Shushan