Why am I always inferior to others?

First, the difference in opportunities.

People are born unfair. Some people are born to surpass others, and some people are born to fail to catch up with others. We have no choice but to recognize the starting point. Although life is long, there are often only a few steps in the critical period. In these steps, whether you stumble or someone paves a smooth road for you, the result is likely to be completely different.

As we all know, when the turning point of life comes, I often don't realize that the so-called authorities are lost and the onlookers see clearly. If, at that time, someone happened to give you advice, then the future fate would be different. Many people will regret why they took this road and didn't choose another one. Some people seize the opportunity, others miss it, and the final result is naturally different. This is almost irreversible.

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Second, the ability is different.

When everyone is born, parents will think that he is a genius. Look, the baby can laugh, look, the baby can talk ... Only when we grow up, our parents have to admit that we are as ordinary and ordinary as them. A person's ability and intelligence are directly related, so most people are engaged in the same ordinary work, while some people with high IQ will be far ahead.

Many people don't admit that ability is related to innate ability, but insist on diligence to make up for it and still get ahead. That's true, but you also have to understand that you just stand out from most of your peers, and some people will never catch up with you. Therefore, when you are confused about "why I work so hard, but I still can't compare with others", there is no need to be depressed, because those people in front are hard for you to catch up with. All you need is to look back at those people you left behind.

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Third, the difference in luck.

Of course, there are still some people who not only can't catch up with the far-ahead people, but are even surpassed by people around them again and again. In the end, only they are struggling to support themselves. I have to admit that there are indeed people who are born with congenital defects and are particularly unlucky. Some people start running, some people are far ahead, and at the same speed, they will never catch up with others. Others tried their best, and as a result, when they were about to catch up, they suddenly fell down, got hurt, got up again, and everyone else hid far away.