Learn these two tricks to expose emotional scams and become a wise person in love.

The worst deception in the world is emotional deception.

If you are deceived materially, you will feel sad, but the money you lost can be made up by calling the police, earning again, etc.;

If you are emotionally deceived, you will feel your heart broken. Inner scars are difficult to heal. Some people even carry emotional wounds with them for the rest of their lives.

Liang Jie is a female elite in the financial industry. She originally thought she would live her whole life alone. Because of their high income and strong abilities, most of the men they like already have families. I would definitely not lower my moral bottom line to contact a married man.

Liang Jie is not willing to make do with men whose conditions are not as good as hers.

Suddenly, Dr. Gao appeared in Liang Jie's world. Because of the financial industry, Liang Jie needs to synchronize data with the United States, and often analyzes cases with her peers late at night. Over time, Liang Jie suffered from migraines.

Dr. Gao received me during several visits. Dr. Gao's professional attitude and caring tone made Liang Jie's heart beat.

So, like most sweet loves, Liang Jie fell in love. In the eyes of family and friends, this combination of a financial woman + a doctor man is a very suitable combination.

The two also entered into marriage with everyone's blessing. Shortly after the marriage, Liang Jie became pregnant successfully. For the health of herself and her baby, Liang Jie quit her high-paying job and stayed at home to wait for the birth.

Slowly, Liang Jie felt that her husband’s patience no longer belonged to her; he often chatted on WeChat and made phone calls at home, but he always avoided Liang Jie.

Liang Jie felt a little worried. When she closed her eyes, she would guess who she was contacting on the other end of her husband's phone.

Due to her pregnancy and overthinking, Liang Jie fell into a trance while taking a shower and slipped into the bathroom. The nanny made a panicked emergency call and sent Liang Jie to the hospital.

It happens to be the hospital where my husband works. During her hospitalization, Liang Jie also visited her husband's department several times to see her husband. But every time, her husband would send Liang Jie back to the ward on the grounds that he should not disturb his work.

Liang Jie keenly felt that other colleagues in her husband's department looked at her differently. Finally one day, Liang Jie received a text message on her mobile phone: "I am your husband's colleague, and even more so his lover. You just happened to appear at the time when we were having a cold war. Now is the time, it's my turn to get mine back." In love”.

Technique for identifying a scumbag: Detect his sincerity from the "yes" and "no" answers

Has Liang Jie's husband cheated on her during marriage? In other words, after marriage, is he still thinking about his colleague (ex-girlfriend)?

After receiving a provocative text message from her love rival, Liang Jie will definitely use this text message to ask her husband for an answer.

So, if your husband is determined to maintain his family, he will give a positive answer to this question. For example: "It's impossible for me to be with her."

But if her husband is obsessed with his ex-girlfriend, which may shake the stability of Liang Jie’s marriage, her husband will not comment on this issue.

Most of the scumbag men will choose to "evade" or "non-committal" to deal with the questions raised by women.

Woman: "Are you still in love with your ex-girlfriend?"

Scumbag: "What are you talking about? I think you are too idle and think too much." This is an avoidance of the question.

Scumbag: "Whatever you think!" This is non-committal. Because the scumbag has not yet made a clear choice in his heart.

Technique for identifying scumbags 2: Avoid emotional traps and follow information clues

Women’s intuition is very accurate, because women are naturally better at identifying non-verbal information than men. This is a gender advantage. Moreover, women have delicate emotions and can easily detect abnormalities in their partners.

Just as Liang Jie feels that her husband is no longer patient with her, then Liang Jie will also ask some unusual questions: "Are you so busy on WeChat? Is it work? ”

Husband: “Yeah”.

Liang Jie: "What is it?"

My husband was impatient: "It's a professional matter, and you don't even understand it."

Liang Jie continued to ask: "Tell me about it. I also graduated with a high degree of education, so I can understand it as soon as I hear it."

Husband: "Are you bothered? I already told you that it's about work. Don't you bother me anymore!"

Liang Jie said angrily: "I think you are very annoyed now. It’s not normal. You are becoming more and more impatient with me! Is this how you treat your wife and a pregnant woman?” Husband: “I think your temper has become very weird after you became pregnant.” Stop talking!"

At this time, we can see that the couple's emotions have become a little tense.

The topic shifted from "What did my husband talk about on WeChat?" to "Liang Jie's temper became weird after she became pregnant." This is when the couple's conversation fell into an emotional trap.

To find the answer, Liang Jie should control her emotions and return the topic to WeChat content. In this way, you can see the other party's response and make judgments without making the two people lose control of their emotions.