What kind of person do you think this is Mother-in-law always says that we don't like cleanliness and neatness, and we don't clean up at home, but I have nothing to clean up. Everything is neat.

I can understand how you feel, and so can my family. In fact, we can think from another angle. Her life has been with her for most of her life. Do you think it is possible to change everything at once? So we can talk to her. If you pull a face and tell her that if you want to smile, there will be contradictions, or you can live separately! So I don't think about it now, and I can't talk about it. If I talk too much, everyone will be unhappy, including my husband who loves you. If it is not worth affecting the relationship between husband and wife, it will be difficult for your old man to do it. The parents of a married son will not be on his side, but will also care about their children.