What's it like to have a beautiful and virtuous wife?

What's it like to have a beautiful and virtuous wife? I can only say that I have no feelings. No matter how good your wife is, she will feel that way after a long time. No matter how beautiful the wife is, she will be tired of aesthetics if she looks at it for a long time. I may start to feel happy in my heart, and slowly my previous treasure hunting mood has become normal. No matter how beautiful and virtuous a wife is, she feels the same as her relatives, but she can't do without it. It may not be what many people think. After all, a beautiful and virtuous woman has become her wife, and she is not as attractive in her heart as before.

Maybe many people won't agree with me, but the facts tell us that the result is often the same. No matter how beautiful and virtuous a woman is, once she becomes a wife, her identity will be different, and as the lyrics say, what she can't get is always the best, while what she has always feels that she can't hide it. That's what people do. No matter how good the people around her are, she always feels inferior to others and always likes to compare with each other. Sometimes even a beautiful and virtuous man will be described as unattractive and monotonous, so it's nothing special for a beautiful and virtuous wife, just like drinking water to eat every day. This is a very common thing.

My husband has a cousin. Compared with my cousin, my cousin's wife is like a flower stuck in cow dung. Many people think my sister-in-law is beautiful and has a good figure. Why did she marry a lazy and ordinary family? It stands to reason that my cousin is lucky to get such a wife. He should be grateful and take good care of his wife, but people think it's nothing and think that marrying her means respecting her! I don't even know where he got his confidence. I want to know that after so many years of marriage, he still rents a house outside, and there are no children and no money at home. His wife never complains about him and takes him seriously. She always obeys his wishes, never makes trouble and does her own thing. I feel that my cousin doesn't know how to be happy in it. Unexpectedly, something happened later, and I felt as disgusting as eating a fly in my mouth.

Of course, I also heard it from my friends. My cousin and my friend's husband both know each other and play together occasionally. Once a friend told me a particularly unpleasant thing. My cousin actually said some nonsense with other men. People say he is very lucky. He married such a beautiful and virtuous wife, but he said that his wife would be fine after such a long time, which is not as good as other people's wives. I can't believe that if I had the chance, I could try to change wives with others. His wife has a hard time raising two children at home and hasn't bought anything valuable. There is money saved for two children. It's incredible. It turns out that there is no difference between a beautiful and virtuous woman and an unattractive woman. Once she became a wife, she became a very ordinary housewife.

No matter how beautiful and virtuous your wife is, it is hard for you to feel anything outstanding and worthy of recognition. It's called dark under the lamp. People around you often don't get attention, and only after losing them do they find that what they have is the best. Isn't a beautiful and virtuous wife still a wife? Don't think that men will feel differently because of this. They became other people's wives and housewives at the same time. I can only say that there is really no other feeling.