The hardships and gains along the way during pregnancy

Grateful for the beauty of life, when our little family wanted the baby most, the baby played on the road for a while and reported it in our planning period, which brought surprises to our little family and made our family and emotional life more complete and beautiful!

The news of pregnancy made the whole family happy. But the process of pregnancy in October is extremely difficult and long. Not only I, but also our family is working hard. I used to praise my mother's hard pregnancy in October in books and other people's mouths, so I knew it was hard, but I didn't know it was so hard! I want to record and share some particularly difficult times, keep this memory for myself and share some experiences with future generations.

(1) Early pregnancy reaction and my pain.

At the beginning of pregnancy, my reaction was very strong: morning sickness and inability to eat, high D- dimer (coagulation, prethrombotic state), collapse-inflammation caused by low immunity, and high fever in hospital.

Reaction to morning sickness:

7 weeks in the first trimester 12 weeks, vomiting badly every morning, noon and evening. First I vomited what I ate, then I vomited what I ate empty, and then I vomited blood. When I saw the red vomit with blood, I was as uncomfortable and scared as a terminally ill patient. I hurried to the hospital. The doctor said that vomiting to stomach bleeding was too serious, but it was not convenient to take medicine during pregnancy. I'll take another look. Sometimes I throw up in the toilet until I get down. Of course, I can't help vomiting everywhere in our halls, corridors and toilets, feeling as uncomfortable and scared as a terminally ill patient. Then I can't eat anything at all in the first trimester, and I can't smell a little oil smoke. My husband was worried and anxious when he saw that I really couldn't eat. He asked me to eat, so he helped me cook boiled cabbage, eat a little boiled cabbage every meal and occasionally eat a small bowl of noodles. He only eats white flour and doesn't put anything. Sometimes he eats with his eyes closed, but he vomits after eating. At that time, it was cucumbers and plums that kept me and my baby alive. Raw cucumbers are sweet and watery, and plums are sour and sour. I only eat these two things all day long. Of course, when you vomit every day, these things are also spit out as scheduled. After vomiting, my stomach hurts, and then I can't eat these things. I drink a little porridge every day to nourish my stomach, but I still vomit after eating porridge. In those days, I was afraid of the smell of oil smoke and vomited. I always vomited when I went out. I went home and took a mask to the barbecue shop downstairs. I especially want to complain about them. Why do I open a barbecue shop downstairs in our community to pollute the living environment of residents? Now that I think about it, many people eat there happily, and the discomfort is entirely due to my special period and special reasons. My husband and mother-in-law can only hide in the kitchen and eat at home, and they can't get their jobs. Even if I wasn't at home when they were eating, as soon as I entered the hall, I began to vomit when I smelled the oil smoke of their food. They saw my symptoms. Don't I dare to go out to eat in the kitchen and follow my hard-working family!

Early thrombotic state (D- dimer? High):

I met Dr. Tian Li from the state hospital. She is very strict and cautious in seeing a doctor, and her treatment measures are also very meticulous. Because of the high content of D- dimer. She explained to me that many people have no problem, but some people don't know why they have slippery tires. One of the symptoms is high D- dimer, so just in case, give me a shot of low molecular weight heparin (later changed to enoxaparin) every day, and then check it regularly every week. Check whether the D- dimer has decreased and whether the medication has affected the liver function, and draw five or six cans of blood every week. So it was a very painful day: when I went to work in the morning, people who couldn't eat vomited badly and drew too much blood. Go to the hospital for injections in the afternoon, and sometimes go back to work for self-study at night. The whole person is exhausted, and even walking and standing are not so stable and fragile. I feel like a terminally ill person, extremely uncomfortable and unable to love! Only when you fall asleep can you forget everything, so sleeping is the only expectation and enjoyment in a day.

Early rising and low immunity lead to inflammation and persistent high fever;

I vomited badly and couldn't eat anything. I went to work, had an injection and had my blood rechecked. The whole person is very weak. 1 1 week +5 days, I feel particularly cold at night, and I sleep with a thick quilt at night, still shivering. Husband feels strange, how can it be cold? Tested with an electronic thermometer, no fever, go back to sleep. When I went to work the next day, I felt very cold and dressed strangely. Everyone looked at me wearing a cotton-padded jacket in spring, which made me laugh strangely, but wearing a cotton-padded jacket could not stop my cold. When I come back at night, the chills get worse. I use an electronic thermometer to measure my temperature, and my fever is low. The whole person suffered for a night. Get up the next day to take your temperature, or have a low fever. But I was really uncomfortable, so I asked the leader for leave to see a doctor. As a result, I went to the hospital and measured it with a mercury thermometer. It's over 39 degrees and has a high fever. But my electronic temperature measurement is still low-grade, so my electronic thermometer is a disaster, which delayed my time to go to the hospital, aggravated my illness and delayed treatment to some extent.

Special reminder: it is more standard to use mercury thermometer at home.

The doctor saw that I had a high fever in the first trimester and told me to go to the emergency room at once. During the epidemic, we have to check and test before hospitalization. As soon as the throat swab went in, the whole vomit and vomit flew far away, which frightened the sampling doctor. During hospitalization, I suffered from repeated chills and high fever. My symptoms frightened several nurses. After covering me with two quilts, I still can't cover my cold. After the chill, I had a high fever of more than 40 degrees, and I didn't relieve it after intravenous drip for two days. After various examinations, the doctor suspected that it was something, such as ureteral calculi, which was not obvious. Other tests showed no obvious abnormality. Then the doctor suggested that I transfer to a higher hospital and be discharged for diagnosis. He was immediately transferred to a higher level hospital. The superior hospital saw my previous examination results and asked me to go to the urology department for hospitalization. It was diagnosed as ureteral calculi, but when I went to a higher hospital for examination, I found that the ureter was normal and there were no stones, so I went up and down again, and there was no obvious reason. After several days of intravenous drip and anti-inflammation, her mother-in-law was frightened by repeated high fever and chills during the injection. Except when eating, she helps me wipe my body with warm water all day. The fever dropped at noon on the sixth day, and we breathed a sigh of relief. However, in the afternoon, I saw red bleeding below, and I quickly did a fetal color ultrasound examination. I got an obstetrician to see me. The doctor said that this was a symptom before abortion, and suggested that I hurry to protect the fetus. I took medicine for two days. Originally, I had to be transferred to obstetrics and gynecology for hospitalization, but without a bed, I continued to be hospitalized in urology. During hospitalization, I asked my husband to sign a risk agreement, saying that the treatment drug may lead to abortion, fetal malformation and other consequences, and I was conceited and frightened my husband. But at that time, the doctor asked him to go to the office alone, and there was nothing unusual after he came out. He is very calm and busy. Later, after leaving the hospital, he told me that his hand was shaking when he signed it. He was very worried and dared not say it, which would increase our burden. B-mode ultrasound done during miscarriage protection showed that the lower edge of the uterus covered the internal cervix, that is, the placenta was very thick. The bleeding may be due to this reason. The doctor said: Give it some time to grow up and terminate the pregnancy before it grows up in 28 weeks. I'm really scared! After coming back from the hospital, I have been afraid to exercise, and even worried about walking. I can lie down if I can. I just found out now. I really need a little attention, but it's not that scary. Under normal circumstances, I will grow by myself, but I really grew by myself in the later stage, and I am very happy.

(b) Second trimester: screening for high risk.

I came back from the hospital, probably because I had a lot of nutrition injections. I felt more energetic, my appetite was better, my morning sickness reaction was less sensitive, and I began to live a good life for a few days. /kloc-during the screening in the middle of 0/5 weeks, the hospital sent me a text message saying that the result was high risk and shock. I went to the genetic room of the hospital for consultation and suggested that I do a small amniocentesis to further screen the baby's genes, but this operation has the risk of miscarriage, especially when my placenta is low. Therefore, I am particularly afraid. Originally, I wanted to do non-invasive, but later I refunded the fee and did amniocentesis. I had a preoperative examination this week and an operation next week. I was a little nervous during the operation, and the result was only half a month after the operation. It was a long waiting process, because once the genetic test went wrong, the child could not be born, and this time was extremely harmful to my mother's health, so the days of waiting for the results were particularly painful. Fortunately, the results came out later, and nothing unusual was found. Experience summary: Looking back, there is actually no need to be afraid. At least, you should calm yourself down: it's no use being afraid, and it won't change anything. On the contrary, it increases the physical and emotional burden. The more this time, the more you should relax! Nothing more than two results, one is normal, continue to raise the baby; Second, it is not normal, and the fate of the baby is not enough, and then how to deal with it. Worry will only bring more negative effects. At the same time, I know that many pregnant mothers who do high-risk amniocentesis screening have normal results, and the probability of abnormality is extremely low. Relax!

(3)? The cost of the check-up is not low.

After all the pregnancy tests and hardships, I am now in the third trimester of 32 weeks, and the total cost of pregnancy tests is more than 20 thousand. In the early stage, the pregnancy check-up was four or five weeks a week, and amniocentesis was more than 5 thousand. There is also a charge for continuous prenatal examination in the later period. Then during pregnancy, I have been taking tonics: D3 calcium supplement granules, zinc-iron-calcium oral liquid, multivitamin capsules and iron supplements, and every prenatal examination is also a big bag. Today's (202 1. 10.7) medical examination fee 1999, excluding two-day registration fee. Therefore, raising a child, the economic expenditure from the beginning of pregnancy test is quite large, but we are all willing to pay for it!

(4) Grateful for the arrival of the baby and full of expectations for our future.

? After three transgressions of five times, I am very grateful to my baby for accompanying me to fight monsters like a brave and powerful little Nezha, and successfully overcame many difficulties. Although it came, I experienced a lot of hardships and pains, but I think it is worth it! Along the way, he (she) also let me get tempered and grow up, understand the responsibility, responsibility and hard work as a mother, and let me respect and respect all mothers more! At the same time, I also felt the warmth of my family. I got careful and considerate care from my husband along the way, saw his sense of responsibility, expectation, care and love for the baby, and firmly believed that he was a good husband and a good father! When I was sick and suffering, I felt my mother-in-law's concern, tolerance and love for our younger generation! There will be some losses if you get it, and there will be many gains if you lose it! Thanks for the arrival of the baby. Let's cherish the last 50 days and look forward to your healthy arrival in this world. Let's experience and feel more and better things in life!

(5)? Based on my own experience, I would like to give some advice to my sisters during pregnancy and pregnancy test (I hope you don't step on the pit you have stepped on):

1. If the morning sickness reaction in the first trimester is too great, it is recommended to take a leave of absence. If you really feel a little collapsed, it will be much better to go to the hospital for a nutritional injection as soon as possible. Don't break down your body, it will bring many unexpected difficulties.

2 .？ If some items are not so ideal during the inspection, don't be too afraid and treat them rationally! We should believe in modern medicine and doctors, and at the same time learn to treat the advice and advice given by doctors rationally. The bad psychological preparation they want us to do usually does not happen, or the probability of it is extremely low, just in case, and it is also a measure for them to protect themselves in the current serious medical trouble. So don't be afraid, but deal with it with a positive attitude!

3. Ask your predecessors' experiences and opinions, and watch your exchanges and comments in the corresponding app. Their experience is also very valuable. Don't be afraid of yourself all the way.

I believe that both you and your baby have a desire for life. You all have certain fighting capacity, can fight and overcome many difficulties. Faith is very important!