Is it normal for parents to say that they are getting married without dowry?

Live a good life and have the opportunity to tell your parents. Everything belongs to your brother, and parents should let your brother support the elderly. This is not to say that you are not filial to your parents, but to remind your parents not to get into the habit of counting on you for everything in the future and not to be the next Mei Sheng fan.

Your brother lives in a new house, and your elderly parents throw it to you for support. What do your husband and in-laws think of you in the future?

The subject's situation is actually a bit similar to my home. No dowry after marriage, I will explain this to my boyfriend in advance. Because my parents always prefer boys to girls, I usually regard what I give my parents as alimony for my daughter. She likes to leave buying a house or getting a wife to her son. I don't care that much.

Anyway, no matter how hard a daughter works, she is not as good as her son. I won't be jealous of my brother or blame him. After all, that's what my parents do.

I have never been homesick, because I don't feel much love from my parents in this family. I only hope that after marriage, my married life will be happy. For the biological parents, the married daughter is the spilled water, and it is also a waste to invest more.

Since I can't change my parents' views, I will recognize the reality, try my best to do what I should do and make myself stronger, so that I won't be afraid of being abandoned or anything.

Sometimes I really envy the family that regards my daughter as the apple of her eye and princess, and I hate that I was not born in a family that is not so patriarchal.

Because a family can be poor, but not without love. If I get married and have a daughter in the future, I will never treat my daughter the way my parents treat me. It's chilling.