I took my son to the hospital for intravenous drip, and my mother-in-law scolded me for not cooking when she came back from playing mahjong. What should I do?

It stands to reason that the younger generation should be filial to their elders, especially their children, repay their parents' kindness and be filial to their parents. But then again, as a parent, if one day, your children start accusing you, are you really a failure? Have you really gone too far?

My mother-in-law is such a person. Now she can't stand her husband's behavior. I won't talk about what she did before. This time, my son was very ill. I took the children to the hospital alone. She went to play mahjong, and when she came back, she blamed me for not cooking. I was too lazy to talk to her. Finally, my husband couldn't stand it anymore and almost kicked her out.

My husband and I have been married for five years, and I have endured my mother-in-law for five years. It turned out that when we first got married, my father-in-law had not died, and we had been living together at that time.

My father-in-law has a good personality, but he is in poor health. My mother-in-law has been playing mahjong all day since we got married. Even if she doesn't play mahjong, she always likes to chat with her sister. At that time, my husband and I both went to work, and every day when we came back, we asked me to cook for our family. At that time, my father-in-law always said, let my mother-in-law cook for us at home. But no matter what I say, my mother-in-law is always hungry.

It doesn't matter. We also want my mother-in-law to be so old. We are young, so it doesn't matter if we do more work at ordinary times. My mother-in-law didn't take care of me when I was pregnant. When her son was born, she had a whim for a while. At that time, she also said that she would take good care of her children at home for her grandchildren. But less than a month after this, my mother-in-law couldn't stand it and couldn't help going out to play mahjong. I had to resign in order to take care of the children.

I take care of the children at home alone, do housework and cook for my family. My mother-in-law goes out almost every morning and comes back at night. When I come back, I always prepare food and wait for her. I am used to this lifestyle. People say I'm stupid, but I don't think it matters. I always think that if you do more work, you can't be exhausted. Being a kind person will always pay off. But just a few days ago, my son had a high fever. In the morning, my husband went to work and asked my mother-in-law to accompany me to give the child an injection. My mother-in-law verbally promised that her husband had just left and she left without saying hello to me.

I take the child for an injection alone. After I came back, the child was unwell and kept pestering me for a hug. I haven't eaten or cooked dinner all day. When I came back at night, my mother-in-law began to be unhappy and complained that I didn't cook for her. From the moment she entered the door, she never asked about her son. Finally, because I didn't cook, my mother-in-law simply ordered takeout herself, leaving us alone.

Finally, the husband couldn't stand it anymore and said to his mother-in-law, "Mom, I shouldn't say that as a son, but are you going a little too far?" Are you too selfish? Regardless of us, your grandson is so ill. Can't you play mahjong one day less and accompany your child for an injection? Just don't accompany your child for injections. Can't you cook when you come back? "In the end, my mother-in-law listened to my husband's words and felt very shameful. I don't know if I am ashamed or angry. In short, she stopped blaming me that night.

But even if I say so, my mother-in-law still can't change playing mahjong all day. I can only say that I tried to convince myself to treat her with an inclusive heart!