What if my girlfriend is too clingy?

Girlfriend is too clingy, is there any gentle way to make her not clingy? Some Lao Tie thinks about having a girlfriend every day, while others think about how to keep it from their girlfriends. Conversely, what kind of existence is a clingy girl? They miss you thousands of times every day, say good morning to you in the morning, ask what you ate at noon, and let you put on more clothes when you cool down. Whether you love me or not today is more worrying than raising frogs! But think about it from another angle, the clingy girl lacks love and security in her heart, so she likes being with you and feels very practical and warm. So girls really love you. Men need love and freedom. If such a girl pesters you every day, you will definitely be annoyed.

Some brothers suggested, just find an excuse, for example, if you say you have to work overtime and get sick, she won't stick to you! Absolutely not! You are avoiding the problem, not solving it. It's ok to refuse once or twice, but you can't say it right when she comes to you again and again. Obviously it is intentional, this object is not in place? Then the question is, what should you do if there is a clingy girl around you, which may be your female ticket, or a girl who has an affair with you, or a girl who likes you silently? First of all, you can put forward your troubles. Yes, the most direct way, of course, is to express your opinion and tell her your troubles. Of course, you can't just say to her, "Would you please give me some space? Don't stick to me! " The result of this development is to break up.

Ladies and gentlemen, the girl who loves you shows that she cares about you, so as long as you tell her calmly, she won't lift the roof. Note that when talking about this matter, you must say it when she is in a good mood, and don't make it more complicated like breaking up. Why do girls accept this more easily? Because you think of her from her point of view, for example, her sisters will be jealous and she lacks a lot of private space. In this way, she will feel that you will not only stay away from her, but also encourage her to do her own thing, which is a sign that you love her. Therefore, you need to show courage, courage and determination. If you hesitate, the problem will only get worse. Secondly, she can have her own circle.

If a girl has her own life circle, she can shift her focus to her own life, such as gathering with friends, reading books, running and so on to enrich her life. In other words, her life does not revolve around you. She likes to stick to you. The first point must be that she likes you and wants to spend more time with you. Secondly, it is possible that she is in a confused state and doesn't know what she should do. So, you should help her adjust her state and let her find her own direction. For example, a girl always wanted to learn yoga, but she didn't go for various reasons. You can take the initiative to help her: "Baby, haven't you always wanted to practice yoga?" A few days ago, I saw a yoga studio engaged in activities, which seemed not bad. All right, I'll sign you up and meet your wishes. "So that she can feel your concern for her, she also has something she likes to do, and you also have your own time.