Cheng Lisha once thought that a good marriage needs her mother-in-law to quit. What role does mother-in-law play in marriage?

Whether a mother-in-law is important in marriage, I think it varies from person to person. After all, the actual situation of each family is different, but one thing is certain: a good mother-in-law will definitely promote the marriage of husband and wife, but a vicious mother-in-law will affect the feelings between husband and wife to a certain extent.

We all know that marriage is different from love. When you are in love, you don't have to think about anything. As long as two people love each other and are happy together, that's enough. However, if we get married, we have to consider many things. Getting married is never easy. It needs to be accepted by both families to form a new small family. Only when the families of both sides are relatively harmonious and have no differences, the newly established small family will be better.

As Cheng Lisha said, a good marriage needs the mother-in-law to quit. Personally, I feel that if my mother-in-law has a high emotional intelligence, she will voluntarily withdraw from her child's marriage and will not intervene at all. I think marriage is a matter for two families, but the last two people still have to live by themselves. At this time, both parents should not interfere too much. After all, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, so don't worry so much when you are old. Next, I will talk about the role that mother-in-law plays in marriage.

First, reconciliation between husband and wife. A good mother-in-law will not have a bad influence on husband and wife's life, but will promote their feelings. So this also reflects the emotional intelligence of her mother-in-law. If the emotional intelligence is high enough, it will really make a family more harmonious. Sometimes there are contradictions between husband and wife, and the existence of such a good mother-in-law will also resolve the problems between husband and wife.

Second, the bomb that affects marriage. Of course, a bad mother-in-law is really a time bomb, which doesn't necessarily make couples quarrel at any time. Therefore, mother-in-law still has some influence on a marriage.