Should girls be too active in facing love?

On the one hand, we should look at our own views, on the other hand, we should look at each other's views.

Look at your own opinion first. If you think you love, you love. Love is your own business. It doesn't matter. If you think love will last, you must have a lot of calculations to consider. Just like the White Snake, you have to take the initiative and wait for the initiative. I'm afraid I don't have my own opinions. It's painful to be led by the nose by the feeling of love, and I can't make others happy.

Second, look at each other's views. If the other person can understand the true feelings, he will sincerely take the initiative to pay, and will also pity your reserve and hesitation. On the other hand, if the other party has its own set of logic, it may be too active, and will only be regarded as not reserved and self-respecting, or as a free lunch.

Generally speaking, initiative is still good, because true love will cherish your initiative, and realistic love full of calculations will be recognized faster in the initiative.

In addition, the initiative is not only throwing herself at the hunter, but also including all kinds of temptation hints. Men's nature is that hunters will take the initiative to gain a sense of accomplishment. A woman's initiative is to attract the hunter's attention, just like a rabbit dangling from the hunter's muzzle. If he doesn't do it, he is really not interested.