Have you ever had a breakdown while taking care of your newborn baby?

After 40 weeks of hard work, I finally put up with life and thought I could finally relax. But who knows, this is the real pain, needless to say, the hard work of taking care of the baby, what are the collapses? Everyday moments? Only in this way can the new mother want to put the baby back in her stomach in minutes.

I once chatted with a newly promoted mother, and she described it like this? Mom? This job: didn't you say that the baby is one? Sleeping slag? Tao, even an angel baby, taking care of the baby is like a 24? Just as you love singing, you won't sing 24 hours a day. You are keen on going to the theatre, and you won't watch it seven days a week without rest! Mom's new job really made me look out of the window at/kloc-0: 00, 2: 00, 3: 00, 4: 00 and 5: 00 in the morning, which made me inevitably get tenosynovitis, stopped my ambition of going out to see the baby every day, and made me unable to care about my weight. I just ate and drank to feed!

Yeah, right? Mom? It is really the most difficult job in the world, and a job is a lifetime, all kinds of endless hearts! But this is not entirely correct. When a mother takes care of a newborn baby, it is not just what the mother described:

Take care of the baby every day? Shit. Shit? Daily care;

24 hours a day online with the baby lack of sleep, poor image;

Go to work for the baby every day, to refine your old one? All kinds of compromises? ;

This is still in the case that the baby is not sick. In case the baby is sick and has discomfort, it is even more overwhelmed and frequently walks on the verge of collapse. For example, when a novice mother is in pain, psychologically speaking, she will not collapse. N times is enough? Powerful!

In an instant, I gave birth to a sick caterpillar: the little one was born for half a day and was held by the newborn for two days because of hypoglycemia. He was served there and refused to eat her mother's milk. He tossed his parents all night and collapsed! !

Chen Xiaobao: Aspiration pneumonia was found in newborns! Then, the jaundice index is very high. The next day, I had diarrhea because I took medicine to relieve jaundice. My mother was in a good mood that day!

Chrysanthemum indicum: Every day, the newborn fails the hearing screening on the second day of birth, and it's going to collapse! The next day, I failed again! My husband and I are guarding the BB bed, and our hands are cold, so we can only comfort each other. It's okay! I checked the information all night and forgot the pain of the wound. After reviewing for the third time, I felt it was a long wait for one minute. Fortunately, my husband said: Yes! I am a big stone in my heart.

When the baby is born, the whole family should be immersed in the joy of the baby's arrival, but there is nothing they can do? Good things are more grinding? When a baby is born, it may experience various twists and turns: hypoglycemia, neonatal pneumonia, high jaundice, hearing screening failure and so on. And the baby's fatigue is affected by this? Bad news? Sweep away, but only wait, wait, wait? Tears, endure pain, experience the feeling of collapse.

Ma Jing suggested:

Don't want the baby to go through all kinds of things at birth? Torture? Expectant mothers must do all kinds of prenatal examinations on time during pregnancy to ensure the health and safety of the fetus, especially in the third trimester of pregnancy and near the delivery stage;

When having a baby, you shouldn't make your own decisions. Whether it is a mother or a family member, it is necessary to communicate with the doctor more to ensure the safe and smooth birth of the baby.

If there are any minor problems after the baby is born, most of them are common phenomena of newborns. Novice mothers need not be too nervous. Just follow the doctor's advice and actively cooperate with the doctor to treat the baby.

Time 2, harvesting a sleeping baby scavenger: collapsed? Sleep scum baby, don't sleep all day, don't newborns have to sleep 18-20 hours, do we have a discount?

Situation 1: Don't sleep. When I was still in the belly, I wished I had one? Little angel? Can be born, only to find that one was born? Little devil? Other people's babies sleep an average of 20 hours a day, while their own babies don't close their eyes for several hours. Even if I slept, I was not practical, and I woke up soon. The new mother is really tired.

Situation 2: black and white are upside down. So is the baby like this? Pokemon? Although I can sleep for 20 hours, but! They only choose to stay awake for four hours at night, and then what? Crying, pulling, begging? Anyway, I tried my best to test my mother. I looked at this doll from heaven with two panda eyes and wondered if it was really my own in minutes. !

Ma Jing suggested:

After the newborn baby is born, it is very common to have less sleep, restless sleep or black and white inversion, which are all caused by the characteristics of the newborn. It is best for novice mothers to know the sleep characteristics of newborns in advance and help them develop good sleep habits from the beginning.

If you want your baby to sleep soundly and correct the situation of black and white inversion, novice mothers can try to wrap themselves in swaddling clothes, keep the room quiet, create a sleeping environment for the baby at night, play with the baby as much as possible during the day and let the baby sleep more at night.

Time 3: Spitting milk, diarrhea, flatulence, and red buttocks. I'm someone: I'm devastated to meet a small owner of a night owl with a straight intestine! On day 13, the newborn not only stayed up late, but also vomited milk and diarrhea. I don't know if neonatal diarrhea is normal or not, it's almost broken for me! Crying all the time and not sleeping, no matter how coaxed, I can't sleep steadily. I hope time will pass quickly and she will get better soon.

Mommy: After half a month, what happened? Flatulence+neonatal eczema+diaper rash? After three consecutive murders, the old mother's heart simply collapsed. After drinking milk this morning, she put it on the crib and fell asleep. Finally, do you sleep without patting or hugging? Fell asleep.

Nausea, flatulence, red buttocks and diarrhea should be familiar to novice mothers, but many new mothers are limited to the state of understanding, and may often enter some misunderstandings in their response, which leads to these situations appearing continuously or repeatedly in newborn babies.

Ma Jing suggested:

Spitting milk, except for the special physiological structure and immature digestive system of newborns, is mostly due to novice mothers? Improper care? Caused by it. In order to prevent the baby from spitting milk, novice mothers can try: the posture of feeding every time should be correct (whether breast milk or formula milk), the baby should burp after feeding, the baby who drinks formula milk should have suitable nipple gaps to avoid the baby catching cold, and change diapers immediately after feeding.

Most flatulence is caused by improper nursing of novice mothers. In order to prevent newborn babies from flatulence, mothers can try to burp after each feeding, wrap their babies in swaddling clothes, often massage their babies' abdomen clockwise, and help them do passive exercise. If you find that your baby is flatulent and crying, you can listen to the white noise or try to hug by plane.

Eczema, the baby got eczema, probably because the mother ate food that easily caused the baby to be allergic, or the baby was allergic to air (dryness, etc.). ), clothes and mattresses, pets, etc. Pay attention to the mother's diet, avoid eating allergic food, moisturize the baby, put on the quilt and mattress. If eczema is serious, you should see a doctor.

Diaper rash, newborn baby's skin is delicate, and diaper rash is basically caused by poor nursing. Diapers should choose regular and common qualified products, use cotton diapers and change diapers frequently. Wash your baby's ass every time you pull it, then dry it naturally, and then apply some buttock cream to your baby.

Time 4: I'm in a hurry to take care of my baby, and I'm exhausted. Yuba is a meal: I don't know if it is a change in postpartum hormones. I always like to cry. During the half month of taking care of the baby, I was not only in a hurry, but also had a backache. I'm exhausted. I couldn't control my tears for a second in the afternoon. Just like a fountain, crying till your eyes hurt.

Charlie Ma Ma: I didn't say a word about the whole production process+sewing without anesthesia. The next month 15, I had a fever. I wanted to boil water, but I was scalded by it? Suddenly collapsed and cried, too tired to take care of the newborn?

Yes, the pain of giving birth is unforgettable for a lifetime, otherwise it won't be severe after giving birth for a while? You'll never know your parents until you raise your children, huh? Feeling.

Raising a baby is really a kind of practice, from? Little white mother? Arrive? Super hot mom? This hard work is only clear to my mother. In this process, the second month is the most difficult and the easiest to collapse. What are the needs of the baby's body? Cultivation? But taking care of the baby in the second month takes care of low back pain, cervical pain, arm pain and chapped nipple pain? Collapse to tears, not melodramatic, but really can't persist!

Ma Jing suggested:

Newborn babies need to be taken care of, and new mothers need to be taken care of after childbirth. Ma Jing hopes that new mothers should learn to love themselves. If the elderly at home are inconvenient to take care of, or can't take care of them completely, it's best to take them for another month. In the month of confinement, it is best to do less besides breastfeeding, otherwise you will get sick or suffer for life.

For a family, women have children to contribute to the happiness of the whole family. So in the second month, the family should take care of the new mother as much as possible, help the new mother take care of the children as much as possible, and let the new mother rest more. Besides taking care of your body and life, you should also take care of your new mother? Psychology? Avoid postpartum depression and find a new mother.

As the saying goes: if you are poor, you will change! From the moment you upgrade your mother, responsibility comes, and maternal love comes, and it must be hard. The role of mother must pay more than that of father. Therefore, Ma Jing suggested that fathers should pay more attention to their children's mothers when taking care of their children!