When couples reach middle age, whether they love or not love may not be so important, but which points are definitely important?

When couples reach middle age, whether they love or not love may not be so important, but which points are definitely important?

The most authentic look of life is to experience the sweet, sour, bitter and spicy in the ordinary, and to deal with gratitude and resentment with a calm heart. The romance and romance are all romantic storylines written in the script. In life, oil, salt, soy sauce and vinegar are the most primitive aspects of emotion. Especially in the middle and old age, whether you love or not is secondary. If you want to live happily, you should pay more attention to these three aspects. Is the body physically and mentally healthy? When people are young, they always have the enthusiasm and energy to try various things, and they never look exhausted.

However, in middle age, people’s hearts have been full of hot and cold, and thousands of sails have passed. More importantly, they want to live a stable life. The mental state can change, and the body will also change. How can the physical condition of middle-aged and old people be compared with that of young people. Many people feel that life is very long when they are young and there is always time to spend. But when you reach middle age, you will become more and more concerned about your age and your body, and you will be afraid of growing old and leaving this world. Therefore, the couple is the backbone of the family and the spiritual harbor of the children. Once they are in poor health, it will be the beginning of a hard life. At this time, the impact of love or not on life is just a matter of additives.

The body is the capital of middle-aged people. The physical and mental health of yourself and your family is more important. Whether economic development is enough for people, once they reach middle age, economic ability is important. From the moment money came into the world, it was destined to become the object of everyone's pursuit. People's yearning for money has never stopped, but is becoming more and more crazy. Because everyone knows that in this life, only if you are rich can you do what you want to do and live the life you want.

As for middle-aged people’s food, clothing, housing, transportation, family and marriage, it seems that everything is inseparable from money. If middle-aged people want to be decent to outsiders, they must be rich; if they want to give their family a good life, they must be rich; if they want to have a healthy life and body, wealth is indispensable. When you reach middle age, you will find that there are too many areas to spend money. Having financial ability is important. When I was young, I felt that I was full of love, but in my middle age, I dismissed these words. Can emotions solve the problem of food and clothing? Obviously not. Middle-aged people have already gone through the age of love, and they value financial ability above all else. As the saying goes, "Poor and lowly couples are in trouble." Only when the financial ability is strengthened, will they be able to flirt with each other. This is the reality of middle-aged people.

Is the atmosphere harmonious? When we are young, what is more important in the world of two people is their feelings. They are beautiful and innocent. After many years of running-in period, the middle-aged couple has developed a better understanding of each other. Regarding the situation of "whether I love you or not", I have already tacitly understood it, and there is no need to constantly verify it. At this stage, the two people are more concerned about whether the family environment is harmonious. In short, they just want to live a down-to-earth life. Some people say: "A third-rate marriage has different dreams, and they just live together; a second-rate marriage has no passion, and strives to accommodate each other for the sake of the baby; a first-rate marriage is in love with each other, appreciates each other, and makes progress hand in hand. Live a happy life. ”

When the passion fades away, when love returns to its true nature, what it shows is just a simple dependence on each other and keeping each other warm in the face of wind and rain. Married life is just a dull period of time. As time goes on, couples will find that only those who can maintain this kind of mediocrity can have a lifetime of happiness. We have been on the road of life for most of our lives. Why worry about all kinds of problems of "love or not love"? When living as a couple, the three things mentioned above are well worth your time. May you move forward warmly with your lover in the oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, and watch the more beautiful fireworks in the world together.