Ask for an explanation, "Set your mind before moving, change your mind before saying, and set your hand before asking." I ching, be more specific, thank you.

Reminds me of a passage in "Six Towers Set out": the raptor will strike, fly low and fold its wings; Beasts will fight, and they will bow to their knees.

But the book of changes is different from this matter.

Translation:

A moral person should settle himself before taking action; Calm yourself down before you speak [1]; If you need other people's help, you must communicate first, and then make your own demands after establishing feelings.