Giving others a bad face is giving yourself unhappiness.

There are two kinds of people, one is to live as others, and the other is to live as oneself.

As long as people find the right direction and live their own lives, it is wonderful to be old again. No one is casually successful. You don't know how much potential you have unless you push yourself.

If you don't want to see other people's faces, force yourself to grow up. "If you are bitter, you are a master." If you haven't suffered, you can't complain that God doesn't help you, so don't blame others for stepping on you.

1. If you don't toss, you will be poor for a lifetime; Work hard and be poor for a while.

Mr. Lu Xun said: "It is poverty itself. If you throw it right, you will become rich. If you make a mistake, you will still be poor. If you don't toss, you will be poor for a lifetime! "

When a person is poor, relatives and friends look down on you, so you can't expect someone to help you. When you depend on others, others will avoid you, just like the plague. But if you have money, you don't need to count on others. You have the strength to cope with everything.

If you don't want to suffer for a while, you will suffer for a lifetime. You don't have any economic foundation, and your parents can't give you much money, so you should study hard, find the knowledge you need from books, motivate yourself from an early age, and get into a good university. "Poor children" mostly rely on reading. If you can't study, you should choose to start a business instead of living a comfortable life at the age when you should struggle.

Dai Guangqing, my childhood playmate, had an honest father and a mentally challenged mother. After graduating from junior high school, Dai Guangqing went to Dongguan to work. In the factory, he works day and night. If he moves a little slower, he will be scolded and even deducted from his salary. When he gets paid every month, he sends 500 yuan home and spends the rest on his own.

Dai Guangqing left Dongguan in recent years, and I don't know what he is doing. It was not until last month that Dai Guangqing sent me a WeChat and invited me to attend the wedding that I realized that he had opened an electronic processing factory in Shenzhen in recent years. Although the scale is small, the annual income is more than 200,000.

What did Dai Guangqing start from? The family is so poor that he has no savings of his own. He told me: "I sold the mountain forest in my hometown, raised more than 20 thousand yuan, rented two small facades in Shenzhen and started a business." Many relatives advised me not to do it, and I was doomed to fail. But I am not convinced, relying on excellent product quality and good reputation, I have won more customers and achieved myself. "

You see that others are rich, but you rarely see others start from scratch, let alone secretly shed tears. If you don't want to look at other people's faces, be a tearful runner, even if it's empty-handed. There are few roads for the poor to turn over, but there is hope if they don't collapse.

Some people win at the starting point, but most people win at the turning point.

Classmate Li Ji's parents run a supermarket and have tens of millions of savings at home. After graduating from college, he started a computer maintenance company and soon became bigger and stronger. He relies on his parents' investment, his parents' contacts to open up business channels and his parents' guidance to manage the company. Li Ji won, winning at the beginning of life. In the words of the countryside, when I was born again, I voted for the right person.

Most people are not the second generation of rich second generation officials, but ordinary people, with no solid family background, good connections and no help from nobles. The starting point of life is very low, which actually gives you more time to slowly accumulate energy.

It seems difficult to start from scratch. In fact, there is a stage of "slowly groping". If you find a road that suits you and can achieve yourself, you will succeed more than half, and the rest will be "uphill".

The ancients said: "There is no way to recover from heavy mountains and heavy waters, and there is another village in the dark." The scenery of life, turning a corner, is very different. Many people, seeing that there is no road ahead, give up and turn back. In fact, you have already taken 99 steps, and you are only one step away from giving up. It's really a pity.

If you want to succeed, you should push yourself. If you try many times and still don't succeed, you haven't tried hard enough. My old colleague An Wen used to work in a public institution with a monthly salary of 2,000 yuan. He resigned as soon as he was cruel.

In the first few days of his resignation, he was also very confused and didn't know what to do. He has run fruit shops, breakfast shops and leather goods stores, and has also studied the management of chefs and hotels. Now he runs a slag brick factory, which collects fertilizer from thermal power plants and cement plants, carries out secondary processing and turns it into bricks and sells them to some builders. An Wen's annual income is 8.9 million pounds, which is the envy of his former colleagues.

Do you also have the idea of job-hopping and the impulse to resign, but you never put it into action, you are just "eager to try" You're just wondering whether to resign or not, and what to do in the future. You have struggled for many years, getting older and older, and then getting more and more comfortable with the status quo.

The less a person gets paid, the more he depends on the face of others; The higher the salary you get, it proves that you have strong ability and high status, but you don't care much about other people's faces. A successful entrepreneur also looks at other people's faces, but many times, it is others who look at his face.

In fact, when a person can't make ends meet, it happens to be a turning point in life. If you dare to break the existing situation, your life will start to counterattack.