What should we do when faced with rebellious children?

Having children is difficult, but raising children is actually even more difficult. Today’s children generally mature earlier than children in the past, and they feel much smarter. They understand many things at a young age. Perhaps it has a lot to do with today's education, material things, and the people we come into contact with. When faced with children's education problems, we often have moments of collapse. When the children are around 3 years old, During a rebellious period, he will fight against you no matter what you say. This also makes parents very distressed. Faced with the rebellious period of their children, we don’t know what to do?

There are also many variety shows now about educating children, such as the previous "Mom is Superman 3". In this show, we can see that it is not easy to raise children. In fact, it is difficult for artists to raise children. Children are similar to us. Children have similar natures. We must treat children's rebellious period reasonably.

For example, in "Mom is Superman 3", at the beginning, Andy, Huang Shengyi's son, was a relatively naughty child. As a mother, Huang Shengyi was also very helpless. At the beginning of the show, Andy was quite rebellious. He wouldn't listen to anything his mother said, which made Huang Shengyi very embarrassed. But in the face of such a situation, our Huang Shengyi was still very patient.

Perhaps it is because the show has just started and our Andy has not adapted yet. As the subsequent episodes of the show are broadcast, we see that Andy loves her mother very much, but sometimes she doesn't. How can I express it? In fact, sometimes, when we think about our own children, is it the same?

We often encounter children who are disobedient. Often, whatever we say, the children will confront us. This also makes many mothers feel helpless and sometimes they really break down. , he won’t listen to anything you say to your child. When encountering such a child who is quite rebellious, our mothers should not yell at their children. Yelling at their children can sometimes be counterproductive. We still need to have a good talk with our children. , when dealing with children, we need to be more patient and reason with them so that they can understand. But in terms of methods, we must pay more attention and listen more to the children's ideas.

Sometimes, children seem to be very unreasonable. As a parent, you have to think about whether you are busy with other things and neglecting your children. Children are relatively sensitive. They will lose their temper for no reason. Sometimes parents ignore their children, and the children will use many ways to attract their parents' attention, such as losing their temper, throwing things, and other behaviors.

When encountering such a situation, we need to reflect on ourselves. Do we have many things we have not done well? Parents may not always do everything right. We also need to work with them. Children make progress together. When facing children, we need to have more patience. Sometimes talking to children properly is more effective than yelling and scolding them.

During the child's rebellious period, we try our best to understand the child's true inner thoughts, so that the child can realize that the parent loves the child, so that the child can easily judge what is wrong. What is right and what is wrong? They will adjust their mentality by themselves. Children are really very innocent.