What does it mean that the speaker is unintentional and the listener is interested?

The meaning of this sentence is: when the speaker expresses one thing, it is not the original intention, but it is misunderstood by the listener as another meaning.

Origin: Qing Suo Xiang's Yellow Hydrangea V: "This is an unintentional statement by the matchmaker. The speaker has no intention, but the listener has intention.

Analysis: it means that the speaker is not paying attention, but the obedient person is paying attention.

I believe that everyone will encounter such things in their daily lives, and I am no exception. Let me share my example with you:

When I first came out to work, one morning, a colleague didn't know the reason 10, and didn't call the leader for leave. So the leader asked in the office, who knows what happened to xx's colleagues? He didn't answer the phone. Do you know her home phone number?

Then my colleagues talked about it, and I casually said, "I think I overslept." In fact, my original intention at that time was that she should just overslept and nothing should happen.

Who knows, this sentence was misunderstood by my late colleague's girlfriend as: I tattled on her in front of the leader. This is really wrong. ...

From this incident, I deeply understand a survival skill, that is: less participation in talking about other people's private affairs, walls have ears, and there is no airtight wall. As the saying goes, the speaker is unintentional and the listener is intentional. Your words will reach the ears of the parties one day. And you may be trapped by others and say something you shouldn't.

There is another situation: people who love you will pay special attention to every word you say.

One night, I casually said to my husband, "It seems that I haven't eaten jiaozi for a long time." At that time, my husband didn't respond positively to me, and then I went to take a shower. When I came out of the shower, I found my husband was not at home, and then I called him to ask where he had gone. He said, "There is no crystal jiaozi that I like to eat in the supermarket downstairs. I'm going to the supermarket farther away now and I'll be right back. "

To tell the truth, I was really touched at that time. My casual remark was exactly what he wanted. This incident also shows that I didn't choose the wrong person, haha.

Finally, I hope that every truly loving heart can meet the right other half.