I'm not very good at chatting with girls. I don't know what to say. Can anyone teach me how to do it?

I’m not very good at chatting with girls. I don’t know what to say. Can anyone teach me how to do it?

Many students have asked me about my talking skills with girls. Teacher, how can I improve my speaking skills. Xiaohai wants to ask you: Do you know what speaking skills are? The art of speaking, also known as the art of speaking, is a mysterious thing that everyone talks about. It is also mentioned in the classic article "Bad Boys Tell You How to Attract Girls" in the industry. Over time, it has been spread to be magical. In fact, speaking of it, the so-called speaking skills are also very simple. In this article, I will tell you about it.

The core content of talking skills with girls is nothing more than making girls happy, making the chat lively and interesting, making the atmosphere ambiguous and comfortable, and making girls like chatting with you.

So if you want to achieve the above points, Xiaohai has summarized the following skills to learn.

1: Humor method can be used to adjust the atmosphere.

2: Screening and push-pull suppression methods are used to attract the other party and make them more interested in you.

3: Banter, role-playing, etc. are used to enhance comfort and make the relationship between two people closer.

Let’s talk about the first point first, humor.

There are actually many types of humor, and I will classify them one by one here.

1: Arrogant humor method.

The arrogant humor method is a very simple and easy-to-use humor method. No matter what other people's reaction or evaluation is to you, you will regard yourself as liking and appreciating yourself.

For example:

The girl said: "I am a beauty", and then I would say: "Beautiful women never say that they are beautiful women. Like me, I never say that I am a beautiful woman." Handsome guy!"

The girl said: "Your clothes don't fit a bit," and then I would say: "He is handsome enough. If the clothes fit too well, he would turn heads on the street. One hundred and twenty, let others live!"

2: Repetitive humor method.

The repetitive humor method, like the arrogant humor method, is a simple and practical method. Say a sentence over and over to express the opposite of your inner feelings.

For example: The girl said: "If you keep doing this, I will castrate you!" Then I would reply: "I'm not afraid, not afraid, really not afraid, really really not afraid, not afraid... ..."

For example: When you see a girl, you praise her: "Hey, the girl is beautiful again." Then after meeting another person, you continue to say: "Hey, the girl is beautiful again." See you. After reaching the third person, he still said: "Hey, the girl is beautiful again."

This kind of repetitive humor may not be funny the first time, but the second time, the third time, and the fourth time This time... I think the humor was revealed instantly.

3: Misinterpretation of humor.

Misinterpretation of humor is to deliberately distort her words during a chat and then say them out to create a feeling that makes her feel ashamed and angry.

For example: The girl said: "I am sleeping in the bed." Then I would reply: "Oh my god, what are you doing? You have to tell me even if you are sleeping in the bed, you, you can't do it!" ..."

You can even create a trap yourself and let her jump into the trap.

For example: You said: "Do you know what girls would like if a boy was thick and big? Especially a married girl." Then when the girl thinks about it, she even becomes angry from shyness. Sometimes, you can tell her calmly: "You have a big pocket and you are generous! What are you thinking!"

4: Pretend to be a bad person or a good person

Whether you are pretending to be a good person or a good person Bad guy, if you take any point to the extreme, to the point where no one will believe what you say, then you are a humorous person.

Pretend to be a bad person, pretend to be a good person, and then reveal your true attitude to create an emotional contrast.

Through exaggeration and other intonations, expressions suggest that one is not the same, and then through subsequent turns to break one's original image.

For example: The girl said: "My computer is broken, please help me fix it.", and then I would reply: "You really found the right thing. You know that I am a computer expert. But I can't repair computers." That's fine, aren't you going to give me some reward?"

For example: I said: "You know, I am a very innocent little guy, so innocent that I sleep with a woman in my arms, even with my clothes on. I don’t even take it off!”

For example: The girl said: “Every time I go to a restaurant, I secretly put some paper in my pocket as a backup.” Then I would reply: “How can you do this? How about letting the guests eat normally! That's too much, you let me down so much, why just smoke a little, you should just take it away with the box!"

5: Pretend to Surrender

When a girl will be particularly angry after you do something, and then warn you or something, you can use the pretend surrender method to instantly break up the embarrassing scene.

For example: "Don't call me Shui Niu from now on.", and then I will reply: "Okay, okay, I won't call you anymore... Then what should I call you, Shui Niu."

For example: "You secretly ate my French fries, which made me very angry.", and then I would reply: "I was wrong. I will never dare to do it again. From now on, I will just eat it openly."

6: Exaggerated praise method

When praising, use an exaggerated tone to praise and compliment the other party, so that the other party can understand that you are actually sarcastic towards her, so as to achieve the purpose of clear praise and actual criticism.

For example: A girl sends me a photo, and then I will say: "Oh my god, she is so beautiful, like a fairy, with the hibiscus blooming from the water, look at those willow-leaf eyebrows and little red lips... ”

This kind of praise is actually a kind of irony and denial in nature. It conveys your confidence and lack of desire, and also achieves a humorous effect.

Exaggerated humor: For example, a girl asks: "Do you often strike up conversations like this on the street?", and then I will say: "Not many, not many, just one or two hundred a day."

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The trick when talking to a girl is to use an exaggerated tone to let the other party know that you are lying to her or joking.

7: Jie Hua Bean, rhetorical question humor

Jie Hua Ban is a saying in Henan, and I will not guide other people on how to call it. However, according to the meaning of the picture, it is to follow what the other person said to expand the following topic and engage in humorous interaction.

The rhetorical humor method is to throw a topic to yourself from the other party and ask the other party through rhetorical questions.

For example: A girl said: "Men shouldn't be too crazy, they have to work hard to make money.", then I would say: "You can't just make money, it's also important to spend money crazy."

For example: The girl said: "It seems that you often strike up conversations with others.", and then I would say: "It seems that you enjoy being struck up by others."

There are many ways of humor. That’s all I’ll tell you here. If I really have to talk about it, I'm afraid I won't be able to finish it from exhaustion.

However, the source of humor actually lies in the mentality.

People can only be humorous when they are relaxed. If your heart is pounding when you are nervous, you will never be able to be humorous. So, please adjust your mentality first.

Two: Suppression:

When you first meet a woman, she will be very picky about you, look down on you, and give you IOD, then you need to suppress her a little bit Stop her and let her know that you are not interested in her at all.

For example: You talk to her for a long time, and she replies with a simple "Oh", or ignores you with disdain, and then you can say: "Oh my god, have you always been like this? Very rude.

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For example: You look at the other person's hair and say lightly: "The hair is very beautiful, is it true? ”

Wait, etc., but please note that suppression refers to a slight negative expression, or an unintentional offense, indicating that you are not interested in her, and questioning the value of the other person to enhance your own value. Remember not to suppress Too much.

Pushing and pulling:

Pushing and pulling is a way of flirting where you are temporarily interested in her and then not interested in her, making the woman guess whether you like her or not, and if she Make sure you like her, then you have no challenge. You can adjust your sense of need through push and pull.

For example: "I quite like your personality, although you are a bit stupid. ”

“You are such a lovely girl, what should I do if I fall in love with you? Let’s get married!” Hey, wait a minute, can you cook? No...Okay, let's get a divorce! ”

Remember, there must be a certain degree of push and pull. If you always push, then she will soon be disappointed with you and leave; if you always pull, then she will feel that you are too easy to get and she will not be happy with you. You lose interest. A combination of push and pull will make it easier for women to take the bait.

Filtering:

When a girl becomes interested in you and likes you. Sometimes, you need to create some difficulties for a girl, tell her that you are not so easy to get, and then let her break through the difficulties layer by layer before she can be qualified to like you. Otherwise, if you are too easy to get, the girl will quickly lose interest in you.

For example: "My mother told me to find a girl above 165, she said it would be good for my genes. "

"I like girls who can cook, because cooking with the one you love will be very romantic. "

"Do you like me? "

In fact, to put it bluntly, the so-called screening is just a useless test between men and women. You can refer to the useless test... We men can also say what a woman says.

I personally like to use female habits to attract girls!

Three: teasing and role-playing

In fact, the humor and other methods mentioned above are different from those below! The push-pull suppression, as well as the current teasing role-playing, are all interconnected.

But many people can’t turn their heads, so I will point it out in detail here.

Ridicule is actually a misinterpretation of humor.

For example: the girl said: "I am sleeping in bed. "Then I would reply: "Oh my God, why are you telling me even when you are sleeping in bed? You, you can't do it! ..."

You can even create a trap yourself and let her jump into the trap.

For example: You said: "Do you know which aspects of men are thicker? It's big, will girls like it? Especially married girls. "Then when a girl is overthinking and even becomes angry from shyness, you can tell her calmly: "If you have a big pocket, you can be generous! what's on your mind! ”

Role-playing, to put it bluntly, is to directly assume a role and let her play this role. The method of use is also very simple, just add a nickname. Someone tangoed that article before Recommended bad boys teach you how to attract girls on the first date.

For example: "Daughter-in-law, I heard that you are in a bad mood today?" Tell me if someone molested you and beat him up. ”

If she directly answers your next question, wouldn’t she default to the title “daughter-in-law”? Then will the relationship between the two of them become closer instantly? I’m not very good at chatting with girls. My friend asked me to go online and practice first, but I still don’t know how to do it. Can anyone teach me how to do it?

Chat more with girls, talk about what topics they like, and watch more. Strategies for girls, see how the seniors chased them, there are many strategies for Bad Boy Academy.

Tango, a well-known pick-up artist, previously mentioned in "Bad Boys Teach You How to Attract Girls on Your First Date" that the core of getting to know girls quickly and attracting them is: there is no situation, just think Find ways to create situations, then provide value to girls, and lead girls with a confident tone and appropriate body language. This is the only method that can reflect high value in every conversation and allow you to attract girls quickly.

1. Situational conversation method:

Let me give you a small example. Last night I went to the Hua Li Club Gym in Guangzhou. When I went to the gym, I had to pass by a swimming pool. The lights were relatively dim at night. , there was a sunken place in the middle next to the swimming pool. I was walking in front, and a young girl was walking behind me. I found the sunken place and avoided it. However, the girl following me did not notice the sunken place. When he went down, he stepped on the air and screamed.

Of course, the dent is not very deep, so it’s not a big deal. I looked back and wanted to help the girl, but the girl quickly regained her balance. I said half-jokingly: "It's all my fault for not reminding you that this place is dented and you almost fell into the swimming pool." Girl He was very happy to hear what I said, and said very cooperatively: "It's all your fault for not reminding me." "Haha, to make up for it, I'll treat you to some sweets later." "Haha." "Why haven't I seen you before? You "Don't you rarely come to the gym?"...

We started chatting, and then we went for a run on the treadmill together. We had a great time chatting... Finally, we left our phone numbers and made an appointment to come together next time. fitness.

Anyone with a discerning eye knows that this is called situational conversation method. The sense of need is not obvious, everything goes as it comes, and the effect is particularly good.

But at the same time, many people will also ask, where will there be a pitfall in the online reading of Devil's Pick Up School? At the same time, there will be a girl who misses the mark and I will meet him. The chance of this is too low, right? , I can’t be allowed to guard this pit every day. Yes, you are right, this kind of situation is indeed rare, and what I am providing you now is an idea, how you should react in certain special situations, that is to say, in certain situations In this situation, you should seize the opportunity to get to know the girl. The effect of this is much better than if you directly strike up a conversation, and it is much easier to start a conversation in this situation than if you strike up a conversation directly.

2. Create Situational Pick-Up Methods

Now I will introduce to you a more powerful and widely applicable method of online reading of devil pick-up conversations. If there is no such situation, you can also create scenarios to achieve the best results.

I believe everyone has had a buffet. The buffet restaurant will have a fixed area where everyone can go to get drinks and food. In other words, this place is where everyone who comes in to eat the buffet can go. Coming. Let's recall carefully whether strange beauties occasionally appear in this place. What would you do if you met a beautiful woman you want to meet in this place? Did you watch the beautiful woman take the food, and then reluctantly watch the beautiful woman’s back gradually leaving, and then regret it for the rest of your life?

I was like this a long time ago, and then I accidentally discovered a little secret that allowed me to easily get to know these beauties. Let's see how I did it. In this food-taking area, when I find a beautiful woman taking food next to me, I will directly say to her in a confident voice: "Don't take the hairy crab, take the flower crab. Today's flower crab is very good, very good ." Something like this.

In other words: "Don't take that one, take this one, this one is more delicious." and so on.

You may be thinking, what if a girl doesn’t think what I recommend is delicious?

What I want to tell you now is: It doesn’t matter, you are providing value now, you are leading the girls, you are taking the lead, this is the place that best reflects the charm of a man. As long as your leadership and dominance are matched with a confident tone and a decent and gentlemanly body, you can attract girls very well. Moreover, even if the girl you recommend doesn't like it, as long as you have the courage to take responsibility and lead, believe me, the girl will still be attracted to you.

3. The core of quickly understanding and attracting girls

Do you understand? The core of the online reading of Devil's Pick-up Learning is: there is no situation, find a way to create a situation, and then provide value to the girl, and lead the girl with a confident tone and appropriate body language. This is the only method that can reflect high value in every conversation and allow you to attract girls quickly.

The example given today is just to provide an idea. In fact, the most classic "Bad Boy Secrets on First Date Skills" in the pick-up circle has already mentioned that there are many similar situations in life. I won’t give you examples one by one. As long as you can understand this idea and understand the truth behind it, you can meet and attract beautiful women all the time. Then you will find that meeting and attracting beautiful women is that simple. What should I do if I can’t find a topic when chatting with a girl? I don’t know what to say, please give me some advice

Just how you chat with your mother, you should chat with girls the same way. Remember, you must always take the initiative in speaking. Don't be reluctant to let go, avoid some sensitive topics, don't ask questions, just make him feel happy chatting with you. I don't know much about dating. When I'm with a girl, I always don't know what to talk about and what to do. Please teach me the experts

Have you ever heard the story of the monkeys in the Himalayas? Legend has it that there was a village at the foot of the Himalayas. People in it were all eager to get rich. One day a Taoist priest came to the village. The Taoist priest said that he could turn stones into gold, but to learn this magic, you need to give money first. All the family's money was given to the Taoist priest. After the Taoist priest collected the money, he told them the formula. At the end, he said, don't think about the monkeys in the Himalayas when performing the formula. Otherwise, the formula will have no effect. After finishing speaking, he left. As a result, no one in the village used the Midas Touch, because everyone didn’t know why, but every time they used the formula, they couldn’t help but think of the monkeys in the Himalayas.

In fact, sometimes it doesn’t happen If you know what to say, don’t think too hard about what to say. The more you do this, the less you know what to say. It’s better for the two of you to hold hands when walking and walk slowly on the road ~ quietly enjoy everything. Tell her, even if She didn't speak~ but she felt very comfortable in her heart, filled with love. But when she was tired from walking, she would ask her from time to time if she was thirsty~ Are she tired? Do you need a break? These words of concern can make her feel your attentiveness more. (It is best to take the initiative to buy drinks. Ask her what she likes to drink or do your own research. If she says casually, I suggest you buy juice or Nutrition Express, these are helpful for girls’ bodies. Don’t buy carbonated drinks. If she likes to drink them, that’s another matter. But if you are good, you should get rid of her habit. Haha. This can better show that you care for others. (Except for girls who are too stubborn and opinionated)

Actually, I remember when I was in love, I told her on the first day: You can completely relax with me~ You don’t have to run out of things to talk~ If you don’t have anything to say, being quiet is also very romantic~I can accept everything from you~You can fart and pick your nose next to me without any scruples~Everything~I just hope that two people can be free and calm with each other. ~Just feel comfortable~ In addition, I also helped my GF research what sanitary napkins to use~ Anyway, I have been with her for 4 years now. We started dating when we were in the third year of high school. We are now very comfortable and comfortable together~ It’s like It’s the same as being with my other self~ Who can teach me, I’m not very good at estimating points!

Now that the school has test papers, I can retake that part and I can usually recall what I did. The results are estimated quickly and can be done in an hour or two. It is fast and accurate. This is what my students do.

I know I don’t know how to use Baidu. Can anyone teach me? Thank you

Actually, there is nothing to learn.

Answer questions and ask questions

Everyone is just playing. It’s just for fun. Who can teach me how to chat with girls?

First of all, humor is the main thing. Secondly, you can ask her about her preferences and talk about topics that interest her. It will get better over time. How to chat with girls, I don’t even know what to say. What! Can you teach me?

I’m not saying what I want to say, but depending on the girl’s specific situation, it depends on what kind of person he is, lively or quiet. If he also likes to talk freely, then You should find topics that he is interested in. If he is a quiet girl, I suggest you not to talk too much, as that will arouse his resentment. Maybe if you listen to him quietly, it may make him like you more. Who can teach me? How can I chat with MM on QQ? I always don’t know what to say

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What a boring person

Haha

Talk to the MM casually

Just talk to the MM based on what she likes. It’s the first time with a girl. Playing as a friend, don’t know what to say? Can an expert teach me how to speak? say something?

Xiao Peng, who are you fooling with? Do you want me to test it for you? . Here are the answers: What kind of girl are you looking for? . If you are more lively. You should speak with a sense of humor. The main thing to be gentle is action. . Come to me and I will tell you alone that this is not good. . My little black