What should I do if my wife is not around during a long-term business trip?

My husband is a business traveler. First, let me talk about our experience. My husband travels for no less than 200 days every year. In the first year of this job, we often quarreled about this. Fortunately, he would comfort me after calming down every time. Now the relationship between us is much better, and he has One sentence once touched me: Men, except those who are born rich, will have a period of struggle. It’s just that everyone is in a different environment, has a different career, and the length of the period of struggle is also different. We once loved each other vigorously, but now life After calming down, we should know how to cherish it. In a few years, life will be better and stable, and we will still be together. This is the best love! ?

Secondly, let me talk about what the husband is like when he is on a business trip alone. In the first two years, he traveled with the team. At that time, he was already a core member, so he was very attentive to his work. In addition, he was invited by the company intentionally, so he was also very affectionate towards the company. At that time, the team was undertaking a large national project. On the one hand, in order to strive for the title of No. 1 in the industry, and on the other hand, in order to establish prestige in the team, he was often at the forefront. It was the most difficult period. , he worked about 16 hours a day for several months.

Because he is in a technical position, the problems he encounters are relatively difficult, and he fell down twice from exhaustion. During that time, I often didn't see his messages until early in the morning, because he was only free to send me messages in the middle of the night. In the messages, he said he was sorry and missed me. Three years later, that is, the first two years, he was promoted to management, but he still traveled a lot. The difference from before is that now he doesn't have to be so tired from business trips. He can arrange work matters to be done by subordinates, and he has more time. Free. So when he was on a business trip, he had more time to spend with me, but we were still separated.

Then, let me tell you what my husband will do every time he misses me. What will he do when he misses me? To sum up, there are three points:

1) Video chat. Although the two of us are not together in the video, we can still feel each other’s presence;

2) My husband likes to read books. It can be said that he is a literature lover. The study room at home is full of books, such as Yu Hua, Chen Zhongshi, etc.;

3) I like collecting. My husband likes to collect liquor and also likes to drink some liquor, but he never He is greedy for drinking. Every time he goes on a business trip, he will search for some local liquor. He does not like to buy those famous liquors, but likes to go to some old local shops to find some old liquors. There are even a lot of liquors from 20 years ago at home. My husband often says , these liquors are more expensive than Maotai, and I don’t know whether they are genuine or fake. Finally, back to this question, what should I do if my wife is not around when I am on a business trip for a long time?

My suggestions are: 1) Keep a clean mind and don’t think wrongly when your wife is not around. This is not only your own depravity, but also a betrayal of your wife; 2) Find or cultivate a hobby of your own, Once you have your own hobbies, you will have other emotional sustenance; 3) Long-term business trips will eventually affect the relationship between husband and wife, especially when there are children. The lack of father's love is not desirable, so we still have to work hard. To change this situation and return to normal life as soon as possible.