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1. Be confident. No matter how ugly you are or how poor you are, you must be confident. Maybe the girl you like likes you. So before you pursue a girl, you should have confidence. 2. Don't think that you can catch up with all the girls if you are rich or handsome. Girls with morality will appreciate your connotation more, so when you get along with each other, show your self-cultivation and demeanor. Don't be arrogant, and don't show off your advantages and capital everywhere. This will give people a frivolous feeling. And don't brag. Girls are not fools. They can see your merits. Girls like boys with depth very much. 4. Being cultured and connotative doesn't mean that you give up your personality. On the contrary, boys with personality will fascinate girls now, but the performance of this personality should be well mastered, so don't paint a tiger as a dog. Be generous, even if you have no money, don't be so stingy in front of the girl you like. It's not that you are extravagant, but don't haggle over every ounce. Of course, many girls still like rich boys, but I have never looked down on such kitsch girls. 6. In the pursuit of beauty, you will definitely pay a lot, and you may not be rewarded. But don't talk about what you have done for her all day because you have paid so much, which will make them look down upon it. On the surface, the girl will not be moved by your efforts, but she is still very happy inside. What you did for her will be remembered by her. Try to keep a hard-working style! 7. Some people say don't give girls gifts casually. I don't agree with this. I think we should give them gifts and do more for them. Girls with conscience will feel indebted to you, so they won't have the heart to refuse your date and so on, so as to get along with each other. Of course, the premise of giving a gift is that the girl has a good impression on you. 8. The purpose of our pursuit of girls is to make them fall in love with themselves, so we should do what Leslie Cheung did in Standing in Okinawa: always circling in front of Faye Wong, not to see Faye Wong, but to let Faye Wong see him. We should learn to show our strengths! 9. Learn to speak sweet words. Although everyone knows that sweet words are deceptive, girls just love to hear them. Don't be afraid of nausea and affectation. You know it's fake, but you have to say it. 1. Women are proud of themselves. So we should always praise them. Even if they are as ugly as Zhao Benshan, we should say that she looks like a fairy. They may not believe it, but they must be very happy. 11. Learn to do romantic things. Remember, any girl likes romance, even if she is usually serious. I once lit a heart with a candle under my ex-girlfriend's dormitory. Many people think I'm shameless, but I won the beauty's heart. 12. As the saying goes, men are not bad and women don't love them. When you are very familiar with each other, it will make girls happy to play a little evil, say some naughty words and touch their hands. Don't always be such a gentleman, it will give people a sense of Mu Na. 13. Don't slander your rival in love in front of her, we should be generous and secretly deceive him! Praise your rival in love properly, but it will make her appreciate you more. 14. Be careful, pay attention to her usual words and give her a surprise. For example, when I first pursued a girl, the night before, she casually said that these shoes were a little cramped. The next day, I braved the rain and went to town to buy her a new pair of shoes. She was greatly moved. 15. If you want to be her boyfriend, you must be friends with her good friends. Buy off her friends. When you are not successful, it must be her good friend who is with her. If her good friend puts in a good word for you, you will get twice the result with half the effort. This also helps to understand her personality and dribs and drabs. 16. Be persistent. When you ask her out, she may refuse you for the first time, but don't give up. You should ask her out in a different way and take the initiative to ask her out whenever you have the chance. Every date should make her feel good and happy, and there will be more dating opportunities in the future. 17. be hot and cold, and there are advances and retreats. You can study in a study room with her for four or five days in a row, send her text messages and make phone calls for three or four days in a row, but suddenly you give her a cold shoulder for one or two days, which will appropriately lose her appetite and make her feel inseparable from you. 18. In fact, the best trick to use, which everyone loves to use, is to make good friends with her first, so that you have more opportunities for performance and success. But what many people can't do well is to get along too well, which will make the other person feel nothing for you. So to make you her friend, not her, you should try to show all your advantages, but don't show your past and your thoughts easily. It is more attractive to leave some mystery. 19. Be self-motivated. Even if you don't like studying very much, you should show your ambition in front of her. And in the process of getting along, you should show your shrewdness and ability. Girls in this era will not like timid and ordinary men. 2. Don't act like she won't marry, but let her feel that you are very important to her and that she can't live without you. If we meet a girl who likes to lose boys, we will lose a lot. 21. In the communication place, we can't understand her preferences and personality. At this time, you should be mysterious so that she doesn't know you. When you know her, you will immediately become the kind of boy she likes, regardless of her dress and personality. 22. Have a sense of humor, but don't be too poor, and don't tell a joke several times. Humor doesn't make you only tell jokes. But I don't know how to have a sense of humor. Anyway, I am poor. 23. When you feel that there is no hope of catching up with her, you can give up for a while, give the other person space to think and give yourself time to re-examine. Make a new plan and appear in front of her with a new attitude. This is called retreat for progress. You can cheat her, but don't let her know that you cheat her, or you will be finished, which depends on your level of lying. Of course, it is better to be sincere! 26. In fact, any so-called method of picking up girls and the dogma of chasing girls are useless (including the above points). Just as Feng Qingyang said: It is the highest state to win without a move! So no matter who you pursue, don't use these methods rigidly. In fact, every girl has her own personality, and not all girls are the same. One of my former girlfriends didn't like clean boys and thought I was the most handsome when I grew a beard and smoked. It was funny. So instead of learning how to pick up girls, it's better to pursue every girl with your heart. First of all, there are usually two reasons for this situation: first, she has a boyfriend or a favorite object, and she fled to avoid the trouble and embarrassment of the two people in the future, so you'd better give up, because there can be no result! Second, even she doesn't know whether she likes you or not, but your behavior may scare her, and she feels at a loss, because girls are always slower than boys, not to mention that she doesn't necessarily like you! The more you pester her now, the more you will arouse her disgust! You have to find out the situation first, and then you can take action! Don't trap yourself in a boring relationship, and the last thing that hurts you is yourself. I'll just say the second case. Although she is at large, she will feel sorry for you and your kindness. But there is no way, she may just want to be quiet, and she will be resistant to any text message you send now and will not accept it! I suggest you just give each other some time to think about it! Adjust yourself at this time. Women like men who are generous and have a sense of humor. The most important thing is to be manly. Don't deliberately cater to her, which will make her feel that you have no opinion! Don't send her a text message saying that you are wrong, which makes you even more stupid! After she calms down for a period of time (definitely), send her some funny messages to show your humor. Pretend that you don't care much about everything. In fact, women are possessive, and the more you don't care about her, the more she thinks you want to be with you. Conquer her with your charm, not beg! Come on ~ ~ You can definitely strike up a conversation: If you've never met someone before, you can pretend to be mistaken, pretend to find something, pretend to ask for directions, pretend to borrow your mobile phone, set it to vibrate before, and then dial your own number. If you know that she is an employee of a company, you can pretend to ask if your relatives and friends are in their company. Pretend to inquire about their company and want to apply for it or something. How to strike up a conversation with someone you know? If you are a colleague or neighbor, you can pretend to find someone, pretend to borrow something, and then give her something for the second time to express your gratitude. Be careful not to be too expensive so as not to put pressure on others. Understand: know yourself and know yourself, and you will win every battle. I don't think you have read the star file, which contains very detailed information about the stars. You can compare it with that and see how well you know it. You can also compare job resumes. Generally speaking, it is divided into six sections: first, basic information; second, experience; fourth, personality; fifth, ability; sixth, hobby; the first section can be divided into personal situation and family situation. Personal information includes height, weight, blood type and address. Family situation refers to her family's economic situation, her parents' occupation, status and status. The second section can be divided into life experience and learning experience. The third section is not easy to understand. You should learn how to understand people's personality, including how to judge people's personality from looks, manners, clothes and so on. The rest of the sections are easy to understand, such as hobbies and habits. You know what she likes to eat, what kind of movies she likes to watch, her favorite city, her favorite sports, what is her pet phrase, etc., just refer to the star file. How to get a good impression: you should know her and her preferences, such as what you like to play, dancing, singing or playing games? What games do you like to play? Do you like watching movies? What movies do you like? What kind of drama is it? Life drama? City drama? Rural drama? What stars do you like? What clothes do you like? What color is it? Where do you like to play? This is just an example. You have to work hard. For example, if you invite her to dinner, you should step on it well in advance. Don't take her to a restaurant. Of course, you should ask her first, but what if she says you decide? You should find it first. Take the initiative to charge the girl a phone bill or something. Thirty or fifty dollars is nothing. She wants to say that she is embarrassed. You can say that you can invite me to dinner, which also provides an opportunity for the next date. You can buy her some bags. Girls like them. For example, Daphne's is good. You can buy her breakfast or something. If you can praise her and sweet talk, it will enhance your feelings. Let your or her friends create opportunities for you to "meet", and it is best for someone to help you pay attention to her whereabouts. Learn to smile. I wonder if you have noticed that there are some people around you who always love to smile. Learn to praise, in fact, praise is an art, not everyone will praise others, first of all, you should be good at discovering the advantages of others. Also learn to listen, learn to listen to the implication of others, and be a person who understands others. Learn manners, and basic social manners are necessary in society. Don't be a good teacher. Although you are right, being a good teacher is a big obstacle to your communication. Don't be cynical in front of her Dress appropriately and make yourself more handsome. Communicate in the way she likes and take her as the center. Wish you success! It's important to be sincere, sincere, and brave in revealing your feelings to her.,,, Try to appear in front of her as much as possible and show your best side. Only by getting to know her in a deeper level can you know your enemy and know yourself. You can also start with her closest best friend and ask her best friend to put in a good word for you.,,,, Women are soft-hearted.