When did you discover that your parents favored sons over daughters?

I first discovered that my parents favored sons over daughters when my brother was in elementary school.

When I was young, I didn’t know that favoring sons over daughters was a thought. I always thought that parents favored the youngest children. As a sister, I should give in to my brother in everything. My parents always taught me this.

In fact, the fundamental reason is the preference for boys over girls.

About snacks:

Since I was little, my brother has been snacking constantly, but I can only eat the leftovers.

My younger brother would clamor to eat toffee every night before going to bed, and my mother would be satisfied. And when I said that eating too much sugar would cause tooth decay, my mother ignored me and said, "You want to eat it too, don't you? You should eat less and don't compete with your brother."

My brother’s birthday is celebrated every year, and my birthday is celebrated every ten years.

About schooling:

We are also in elementary school. My younger brother takes me to and from school all the time, while I walk home all the time after school.

When I was in elementary school, I had to walk home alone for two hours after school. I was alone and had no friends along the way.

When I was in the second grade of elementary school, I was returning home after the midterm exam. I remember very clearly that I met a strange man riding a bicycle on the road and asked him to take me home. I didn't dare to pay attention. Because I didn’t know him at all and I was afraid that he was a human trafficker, I told my parents about it later. They told me that I did the right thing, but they still didn’t pick me up from school. In the next few years, I still went home by myself.

About pocket money:

My younger brother has had pocket money since he went to school, but I did not have pocket money at any time when I was in school. If I want snacks, I can only ask my brother for them. If I ask my parents directly, I will only be scolded, saying that I am greedy and ignorant.

My brother’s requests are all reasonable, but my needs are ignored. < /p>

“Girls don’t need to read so many books. In the end, they still have to marry into someone else’s family. I’m training someone else in vain.”

“What’s the use of going to college? I’ll give you money to go to college, but your brother will have no money to go to college, and your brother will have to marry a wife.”

“You can go to college, but I will need hundreds of thousands more.” Betrothal gift."

"I will definitely accompany your brother when he goes to school. I have been accompanying him since he was a sophomore in high school, and the rent is 13,000 yuan."

About the left-behind sister:< /p>

I also have a younger sister who has been a left-behind child since she was a child. My grandma dislikes girls very much. People in the village said that they often locked their sister in the house and let her cry. She would be beaten once every three days and once every five days. The difference between me and my sister is that I was beaten by my mother. Parents are reluctant to beat and scold their younger brother.

About my sister’s marriage:

My sister’s wedding will not bring much dowry, just some daily necessities. Even according to custom, she should be accompanied by a few decent home appliances. But my mother said that the betrothal gift was not much, so it would be a loss if she was given as a dowry.

I asked my mother if I had a dowry when I got married. My mother said: "No, you don't like these things, so you can save some money by not accompanying me with a dowry. But we will still accept the bride price." , We don’t want to pay as much as others give us. Anyway, forget about the dowry. If you have money, you can do it yourself. We still have money left to give your brother a wife.”

"Oh, by the way, if your brother wants to buy a house, you have to support him more."

I felt very uncomfortable when I heard this, and continued to hold back my tears and asked: "Mom, what about my sister's gift?" Are they all for my brother?"

"You are not talking nonsense. Is it possible that I am saving money for you?"

"You are not married yet, and you cannot get married in the future. Far away, it is inconvenient for us to go to your place when we are old. If your brother is not filial to us, you can't ignore us." The reason behind the preference for boys over girls:

The idea of ????preferring boys over girls is deeply rooted and feudal. His thoughts were rotten, and his parents were deeply poisoned.

The father said that if he could not give birth to a boy, he would not be able to hold his head high in the village and would be embarrassed. Only boys can inherit the incense.

My mother said that giving birth to my brother would fulfill her wish. She said her grandma looked down on her, and she had no right to speak if she couldn't have another boy.

Boys can take care of themselves until they die, but girls are thrown away if they marry someone else.

"Girls are destined to be rapeseeds. If the soil is fertile, they will grow well. If the soil is poor, they will grow weak. Who allowed you to be born into our family? Our family is poor and has no choice." How do I view it? :

My parents have been poisoned by this kind of thinking all their lives. I want to end it now and put an end to this dregs of feudal thinking.

Whether it is preference for boys over girls or preference for girls over boys, it is not advisable.

I think "Boys and girls are the same, boys and girls are both treasures." This should not be just a slogan, but should be treated equally from the bottom of our hearts. They are all our own children, and they are all in our hearts. of treasure.

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