What girls should know about love during college.

1. Time spent together

I don't need you to chat with me or spend 24 hours with me. Our relationship doesn't need to occupy each other's work or busy time. I hope we can give each other time and space to work hard, but when we are finished, we need to give me our own time.

2. Time and space for personal solitude

I don't ask you to report to me what you are doing, eating, drinking and playing every day ... You can tell me where you are going in advance, who will reassure me, and I won't interfere with your time and space with your friends.

3. eager to share

Love is reflected in the little things in life. Love is full of desire to share. You can share with me the interesting things, problems and sadness you met today, because I hope I can feel your happiness and understand your sadness. My sharing also needs your response. I don't want you to be perfunctory, so I don't want to share it with you anymore.

4. Sense of security and border

I don't ask you to send me to a circle of friends every day, and I don't ask you to take me everywhere, but you need to let people around you know that I exist. For the opposite sex, I hope you have a sense of boundaries. Even if you have known each other since childhood, you should consciously keep your distance. Love is trust and understanding, so I trust you on the premise that you give me enough security before I get angry with you.

promise

I don't ask you to promise me anything, but if you promise, you must do it. If you can't do it, don't promise me easily, because I will be very disappointed. Before I feel that you really care about me, I prefer to keep my promise rather than talk casually.

6. Memorial Day

I don't ask for expensive gifts on anniversaries or festivals, but you should let me feel your intentions ~ the so-called intentions don't talk about valuables, just talk about your heart! Even a happy holiday, flowers, dinner, and an appointment can make a dinner at home. Let me know that you care about each other as much as I do, and this anniversary belongs to us.

7. Small emotions and contradictions

I hope our love is to run in, understand, accommodate, tolerate and change each other! When there are contradictions, I hope everyone will be honest with each other and raise all the dissatisfaction, instead of silently deducting points in their hearts, swallowing up and finally breaking out.

I hope there will be no cold war and no cold violence when there are contradictions. I appreciate any way to hit the ball directly. As long as we are unhappy, angry, unhappy and dissatisfied, then say so. Don't lose your temper when you are emotional, say goodbye, be cruel and aggressive. We all have to take a step back. Love is always hot. Only by knowing what you are dissatisfied with your little emotions can you make changes.

I also hope that we don't want to give up when we are emotionally unstable, but give each other a chance to explain and give each other a chance to change. Without a natural partner, everything needs to grow up with each other. There will be many differences in the process of love, but we need to communicate and quarrel. Never break up! Every time I mention it, it hurts each other and consumes feelings.

8. Fresh

I hope our love will last for a long time, not just a few months, and there will be no boring topics, but this is just our habit of loving each other, not that we don't love each other. As we all know, novelty is not to experience the same thing with different people, but to experience different things with the same people. I want you to know that no matter how long, you are still my firm choice, and you are still the person I want to spend my life with most.

9. Planning for the future

I hope our love has a plan and a future, and we are all working towards the same goal! Save money to buy a car and a house together. I need you to convince me that you have me in your future plan, let me see your actions, and you are trying to realize our future plan, so that I can believe that you are worthy of my trust for the rest of my life!

10. Clear love

People who really love you won't let you worry about whether ta loves you or cares about you every day. People who really love you will make you feel at ease. You won't worry about ta cheating, and you won't worry that ta doesn't love you. Love is hidden in every detail of life, with a look and a word, without repeated confirmation.

1 1. Respect each other and be independent.

I don't want to rely solely on you in my life. Everyone is an independent individual. We can change for love, but this is based on becoming excellent. In love, what we need is mutual respect, not ignorant concession and tolerance.

12. Three Views

Values: the standard outlook on life when treating and judging things right or wrong and making choices: attitudes and views on life, ideals of life, pursuit of world outlook: views on the world and views on the outside world. Everyone has different personalities and opinions. When the three views are different, you can try to communicate and seek common ground while reserving differences! If it really doesn't work, evacuate in time.

Expenses and gifts.

I don't want only men to pay all the time in the process of love, but I don't want them to care too much in love. AA is acceptable, but this so-called AA means that I pay for this meal, you pay for the next meal, and I give you a gift in return. I hope our love is equal and healthy.

14. Don't compare with others.

Pay less attention to the love of others when you are in love. You can bless and envy, but don't send it to your boyfriend to follow suit. Every couple has their own way of getting along, and your boyfriend will love you in his own way. On the other hand, what do you think if your boyfriend sends it to you to imitate other people's girlfriends?

In any case, no one is perfect, and falling in love is not easy. As long as there are no principled problems, for the sake of future growth, communicate as much as possible and understand each other! And cherish!