Many people say that they are too lazy to be filial in front of their children's graves after death, and their ashes are scattered into the sea. what do you think?

I have put forward this point in the article, hoping to get more support and response!

Even the famous lady Qiong Yao made a will in this way, which is admirable!

Life is actually a process. Because of cultural education, survival and reproduction, national conditions and regions, religious beliefs and other reasons, too many concepts of "life" and "death" are given. Strictly speaking, this is something artificial, superficial, false and useless. ...

Therefore, we should face life and death calmly, talk about the concept of life before we die, and leave more relaxation and happiness for the living and future generations, and less pain and trouble. This is what each of us should do at the last moment of our lives! ……

Sing a beautiful carol for the birth and death of flower of life!

My last wish is to scatter the ashes into the sea.

My hometown is a seaside town. My home is a so-called sea view room near the sea. My son is studying at the Naval University. My last wish is to scatter the ashes into the sea. I don't need to worship. I am in the arms of the sea. It's close to my hometown, overlooking my house and standing side by side with my son's warship.

I am 78 years old, and I am going to bury my ashes in the sea in the future. First of all, there is no need to occupy land. Sea sand is also a new way of offering sacrifices. Children are not required to pay homage to graves, as long as they are old and try their best to take care of them. Is the best way to be filial.

After my death, everything is very simple. It's too much trouble to scatter the ashes into the sea, because my home is too far from the seaside. You don't need an urn. I heard that urns are not cheap, and they are divided into 3, 6 and 9. Just put it in a clean cloth bag and sprinkle it in the flowers of the unit. I'm not sure that my efforts will often be mentioned by the leaders. Maybe one day when I am happy, I will jump out loudly and punch in on time!

This is a matter of custom and there is no need to rise to the moral level. After my parents died, we all got along well. For twenty years, we have been going to sweep graves. But it's my turn. It's almost dusk. And a pair of sensible children. But I don't want ashes, let alone a cemetery. Leave an inch of land for future generations to plow. It's really meaningless to go through these situations, and it's quite troublesome.

There is only one child at home now, and no one wants to cause trouble to the child. I also want to return to nature and swim in the sea. Doesn't that mean polluting the environment? Then I hope there is a more environmentally friendly way for me to leave without leaving a trace. It's best to wait, maybe say goodbye to the world before waiting.

Yes, that's what I really think: I don't want to donate my body and scatter my ashes in the sea or any cemetery after I die.

I don't like any red tape. I respect what others do. But I got there by myself, and I didn't need any farewell ceremony or a group of people to follow me. It's nice to leave quietly without leaving a trace. If you die, you are dead. There is no need to trouble many people and owe them a lot of favors.

In my mind, burning paper to sweep the grave has nothing to do with filial piety. These are all ways of mourning. Since it is the way, there are many choices, such as online memorial service, written confession and public welfare activities. There is no right or wrong, everyone's situation is different, there is no need to force.

Just be kind before you die. After death, it is over.

Nowadays, the population is highly mobile, and most people's children go to other places to work for a living after graduation. When their children grow up, it may be another round of migration. With the decrease of birth rate, the original hometown became an empty nest and gradually disappeared. After the death of the older generation, they were buried in their hometown to pay homage to Qianshan. It can only be year after year, and no one cares. In that case, why give it to the younger generation?

It is wiser to sprinkle it on land, Shan Ye or marine rivers.

I agree with both hands! My wife and I have long agreed to this kind of sea burial, and the former national leader took the lead in scattering ashes into the sea! What can we ordinary people do? No, not even death! What's the point of keeping a handful of ashes?

Never leave useless trouble for your child! It's good to live a dull life and leave quietly.

Take this platform, Tucao is a nail! One day, I will leave no ashes. I come from nature, and I must return to nature! Throw them all into the sea! Take this word as evidence. [Pray] [Pray] [Pray]

I am one of many people. It is a wise choice not to set a grave after death, not to disturb children, and to scatter ashes in the sea.

I only have an only child. More than once, I told my daughter not to engage in any ceremony after death and not to enter any cemetery. I should scatter my ashes into rivers or the sea, or bury them in trees as fertilizer to make the trees grow more luxuriantly.

I have never understood why many people always think that there is a soul after death! What puzzles me in particular is that many people with higher education now believe that the soul will never die after death and will always exist in nature.

I remember after my eldest brother died, my two nieces, Tomb-Sweeping Day, and I were on our way back from the grave. At that time, I seriously told them that after I died, I didn't want a grave and scattered my ashes in the river. My little niece listened to my words and asked me seriously, "Where will your soul live after you die?" After listening to her words, I smiled and said, "Is there a soul after death? Still need a house? In your opinion, after death, the grave is the house! " The two nieces were speechless after hearing this.

After death, an unconscious body was clearly burned and cremated into a handful of ashes. Where is the soul? If people are really haunted after death, it is a huge cemetery full of ghosts and amityville horror for many years!

In my opinion, when people die, everything goes up in smoke. All ceremonies and graves are just artificial forms. As an ordinary person, who are you after a hundred years? Who knows?

Of course, if someone wants to believe in the existence of dead souls, there is no way. That's his thought and his freedom.