Five taboos for men

Taboo 1. Touch his privacy. Women have secrets, and men have privacy. I believe every girl in love is like a curious cat at heart, but don't forget what she often says, curiosity kills the cat. When you try to pry into your boyfriend's privacy, if he finds out, I believe the ending will be tragic. In fact, everyone has his own privacy, and he must have his own reasons not to share it. If you want to be well, then reduce your curiosity and leave him some privacy. Taboo 2. Too jealous. Is your boyfriend in contact with other girls? Obsessed with your ex-girlfriend I believe that for those of you who are in love, there must be some jealousy at this moment, but please don't break into a furious rage. After all, he will definitely contact the opposite sex, and he has not completely forgotten his predecessor, just because of time. If you don't haggle over every ounce, you will let your boyfriend know who is the girl who loves him the most and makes him worth cherishing the most. Taboo three. Blame his work. For work and love, many men are used to putting the former first. If he is busy during his career advancement, you'd better not blame him for not having time to accompany you. After all, he works hard, not only because of his persistence in his work, but also for your happy life. Taboo 4. Blaming him for playing games is the * * * sex that many lovers face. Some girls always make trouble because their boyfriends are playing games and ignore them for a while. But I'm sure you don't know that men have a heart to play heroes. They immersed themselves in the game world for a period of time and found the need to play heroes. This is the nature of many men. Don't blame him for it. If it's really hard for you to understand, think about how much you spent on Korean dramas and Taobao. Taboo five. Disturb him when he is lonely. Don't disturb him when he is lonely. Life and career are stressful and men are always unhappy. When he is alone and healing, don't bother him and ask him why. Men are good-looking, just stay with him silently. Five taboos for men II. When a man is drinking and eating with friends or business partners, as his wife, you should try not to disturb him by phone. Men still have to socialize well. If you tell him to go home at this time, he will lose face in front of his friends. In this case, his friend will feel very disappointed and think that he is afraid of his wife, but it is still ok to send a WeChat to check the post. Second, when a man is sad, if you don't want to quarrel, don't ask him why, because it will make him more sad. You meant to care about him, but you did the opposite. At this time, you should give him a quiet environment to think about his own problems and learn to be a listener. Third, men will love face more or less. Don't talk about his shortcomings or bad habits in front of outsiders, it will make him lose face. Perhaps a casual sentence will become a topic for friends to vomit him. No matter what he says outside, just nod your head. You know, there is a saying called "settling accounts after autumn". Don't earn short time, but there will be many opportunities in the future. Men usually have mobile phones, pocket money, cigarettes and lighters in their pockets. Even so, women should not go through men's pockets easily. For men, men's pockets represent dignity and trust. Women frequently check men's pockets, which is equivalent to tearing up men's dignity and destroying the trust between husband and wife. A man's mobile phone will have some seemingly ambiguous information, but there is no ambiguous information. A woman peeking will only increase her troubles and make men feel unreasonable. Dare to ask, if a man is cheating, can you stop him by reading his cell phone message? A man sometimes complains that his parents or brothers and sisters are not good. At this time, you must put in a good word for his family After marriage, you will form a new family, and your dependence on the family will be reduced before marriage, but at the critical moment, the family will explode with immeasurable power. When your husband often nags your parents and brothers and sisters in front of you, you will also feel uncomfortable. Five taboos for men: First, avoid vacillation. People who achieve great things usually stick to their own choices. If they waver, they can only keep circulating on detours, consuming morale and wasting time. Overcome all kinds of difficulties like a bullet, go all the way forward and finally achieve your goal. Second, avoid being blind and arrogant. Because of a little achievement, you begin to be conceited and will go downhill. The more successful you are, the more you should keep a low profile and do high-profile things. Don't lose yourself because of short-term success. The more you expand, the faster you will fail. Third, avoid losing control of emotions. Strong people can often control their emotions better, learn to restrain themselves, don't get angry easily, and calm down is the practice. If you can't control your emotions better, it's easy to say things that hurt others and make wrong judgments. Once the temper breaks out, it is difficult to recover. Fourth, avoid being too materialistic. People suffer because their abilities can't satisfy their desires. It is said that contentment is not just talk, the most important thing is to be able to do it in real life. Fifth, avoid being swayed by considerations of gain and loss Don't be afraid of losing. If you worry about everything all day, you will not only live very tired, but also get what you want. According to Murphy's law, the more you are afraid of losing, the easier it is to lose. Don't be afraid of losing. What you lose will be rewarded in another way.