Son 14 years old, Grade 2. I saw him send photos two days ago and found him smoking. What should I do?

What should you do if you find your child smoking in junior high school?

1, pay attention to psychology, don't blame: parents should pay attention to their children smoking. They should not regard it as a trivial matter, let alone blame or beat and scold children. They should tell children about the dangers of smoking, especially when they are too young. Smoking.

2. Let children read books that prohibit smoking: Parents' blame will not have any effect, but it will be counterproductive. You can buy some books about the harm of smoking for children to read, understand the harm of smoking and let them know that smoking is a psychological problem. Bad ones must be resolutely put an end to.

3. Keep children away from idlers in society: Children often smoke because of curiosity, and are encouraged or lured by idlers in society, saying that men should smoke, and not smoking will make people look down upon them. When children can't tell right from wrong, they will start smoking, so prevention is very important. Pay more attention to the people your children associate with and what kind of people your friends are.

Parents should set an example and don't smoke in front of children: children are curious and have strong imitation ability. Parents often smoke in front of their children, or some parents let their children learn to smoke, which is very fun. What a stupid thing. Parents do not allow their children to smoke. It's best not to smoke in front of their children.

5. Take your child to a drug rehabilitation center: If your child has been smoking for a while, but is not addicted, you can take your child to a drug rehabilitation center if you have the conditions, so that drug addicts can appear in lectures, which has a great influence on your child. ? Children will be more aware of the consequences of smoking.

6. Forced to quit smoking: If the child is addicted to smoking, but preaching is useless, parents can't feel sorry for their children. They can go to the hospital to buy medicine to quit smoking. After all, children are too young to hurt them because they are distressed.

Mom brought the child into this world, and he doesn't belong to you completely, especially his thoughts, opinions and personality. Give the child enough space, give him full respect, give him reason, educate him to abide by the norms, and leave the rest to him to judge and solve.