My parents peeked at my diary. What should I do?

Many children have had this experience since childhood, and their parents have peeked at their diaries. You are a great child, because you can use a diary to record every bit of your life. This fully proves that you are looking at the world with your heart and that you have an admirable sense of independence. However, have you thought about it? When you build your own world, you are also losing another world, that is, the world of mutual understanding with your parents.

Many times, there is a generation gap between parents and children because the age gap between them is too big. After that, parents will not understand their children's thoughts and behaviors, and even in their view, their children are rebellious. Almost every child mentioned diaries. They all said that their parents would secretly read their diaries, then discuss the contents with the class teacher, and even send photos to the class teacher. Almost all of them chose patience at the beginning. When they can't stand it, they try to communicate with their parents, but parents don't really take their children's demands seriously.

The biggest factor in parents' practice is that it is difficult for them to communicate calmly. And they care about you, but they don't understand what you are thinking, so they made a move to peek at your diary. Actually, you might as well think about it from another angle. If you are a parent, are you also depressed to see your children hiding in the house and writing diaries every day without telling themselves the truth? Therefore, you might as well be a "small speaker", talk to your parents about your troubles, life feelings and interesting things, and "publicize" your emotions.

In the eyes of parents, the child's mind is like a joke. In the eyes of parents, they are still the children who have to tell their parents everything! How did it become a stage where you don't want to tell your parents anything? So, on the surface, mom and dad will say: OK, I will respect you, but inside, they are still thinking: What does this little guy know about privacy? Therefore, children strive to communicate well and do not give them the respect they deserve!