Marriage is breeding...

In the past few days, I can always hear people around me talk about getting married, consciously or unconsciously urging me to find a partner to get married quickly.

? I didn’t say anything, and I didn’t explain it seriously.

? In my opinion, there is no need to get married on the 24th just because others are getting married on the 24th. For me, getting married is not an extraordinary trivial matter. On the contrary, for me, getting married is a matter of life. big event.

? This important matter is not what relatives think. If there is a single daughter in any family, the two families can make do with each other. Doesn’t it feel like taking out the dogs raised by one’s own family and breeding them? ?

? Have a meal with someone you don’t like, spend some money, and then get married in about six months?

? I didn’t think so before.

? Marriage equals responsibility.

? This responsibility is not only to yourself, but also to the person you marry.

? For a boy in his twenties who has nothing, most of them rely on their family to get married.

? When a person gets married, his parents almost lose half their lives, so why bother?

? I don’t agree with some people’s view that most boys now rely on their family members to be able to get married, although this is indeed the case.

? I personally think that if a person does not have a certain ability to make money, or a stable ability to make money, it is best not to rush to get married.

? How long can you rely on your parents?

? If you don’t have the ability, getting married will definitely harm others.

? Not only does it harm yourself, but you also have no money, what about your children’s education?

? Give birth to a child and raise it for your parents?

? As everyone knows, life is a chess game, one step is wrong and the other is wrong.

? If you do not have the ability to provide your child with an adequate educational environment, he will fall far behind others in the future. What will happen to the outcome?

If you are poor but have short ambitions, then give this concept to your children later, and then let your children be poor but have short ambitions?

? I have been living in a life where I have to save everything and save money. I don’t believe it. If you have a child, you will tell him in his education that you want to invest. Spend money on yourself to learn skills and develop hobbies?

? Isn’t this nonsense?

? You have no dreams, no pursuits, no knowledge, no vision, and you live in poverty. How can you educate your children well?

? Most people are busy making money and have no time to educate their children and tell them that they have dreams, pursuits, and ideals.

? Even if your child has this mindset, can you afford the education cost of several thousand dollars a month?

? I have encountered a child who wanted to learn computers, but the parents thought that the child wanted to play games and refused to let him learn computers. Good guy, look at it now, does that not require the computer field?

? If a child wants to learn painting, the price of 3,500 per semester is considered “not worth it” by everyone from the elderly to the parents themselves.

? Can such a native family continue to produce high-quality offspring?

? They themselves do not have this concept or awareness. What kind of talents do you expect him to teach?

? The same applies to myself. I am not sure how long I can accompany him in his life if I get married casually and have children. I may be mostly When he was working, he had to educate him every time.

? If he does not study well, he will go out to work like me after a few years, and then I will take care of his children in my hometown when I grow old.

? I suddenly discovered that these things are mutual. If you don’t accompany him when he is young, he will still stay away from you when he grows up.

? It just happened to be wrong. If you don’t grow up with me, I won’t have time to grow old with you.

? So, if you don’t have the ability to cultivate or educate your children well, it doesn’t matter whether you get married or not. If you have the ability, you will naturally get married, regardless of who of the man and the woman has the financial ability. , he is not afraid of the risks of marriage, and there is no difference between being married and not getting married if he is unable to do so. After all, times have changed, and divorce is just a matter of sealing the seal.

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