Sister, when you go back to your mother's house, you can either buy food or pay. People who eat rice are not supported in my family. what do you think?

It is said that after a woman gets married, her mother's family is the home she can't go back to, especially if she has a brother and a sister-in-law, and then she will feel embarrassed when she goes back to live for a long time.

The relationship between women is difficult to deal with, whether it is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Generally, the only daughter has no psychological burden and worries when she goes back to her family, because there are only her parents at home, and no one will say a word, no matter how long she lives or how much she eats.

But if you have a brother and a sister-in-law at home, it feels very different. If parents live with their brother's sister-in-law, live together and eat together, the daughter will really have to be careful when she goes back to her mother's house, afraid of looking at her face.

During this time, the Woods felt what it was like to go back to my mother's house to see my sister-in-law's face.

02.

Lin Zi sat for the second month after giving birth to a child. It is the custom in Lin Zi's mother's hometown that when her daughter has a second month, her mother must pick her up and stay for half a month.

So, Lin Zi's mother took Lin Zi back to her mother's house, which was a small duplex with three floors.

The ground floor is where mom and dad live, the second floor is where my brother and daughter-in-law live, and the third floor is where Lin Zi and her husband occasionally come back to live.

The Woods take care of her sister-in-law's feelings. She is afraid of going back to her parents' house often, and her sister-in-law feels uncomfortable, so she seldom comes back. She only brings her husband back to live on holidays occasionally.

When Lin Zi was confinement, her husband specially took a month off to take care of her. As soon as she gave birth, her husband rushed to work overtime, trying to make up for the leave she had taken before.

So this time only Linzi and the baby went back to their parents' home. As soon as I came back, my mother started to kill and stew the chicken and make soup for the Woods so that she could have enough milk to feed the baby.

03.

Seeing that her mother-in-law is so kind to her daughter, her brother-in-law can't hold back. When eating, the cup of nourishing soup was placed in front of the Woods. Mother put a chicken leg in a bowl in the Woods and gave Lin Sheng a big bowl of nourishing soup.

Seeing this, my sister-in-law quickly put the drumsticks and chicken in the tonic soup into her bowl.

At that time, Lin Zi's mother didn't look good. The Woods secretly shook his head and told his mother not to talk. She didn't want to make her relationship with her sister-in-law so awkward because of this incident.

Lin Zi breast-feeds her baby and especially likes sweating, so she often changes clothes and washes clothes with a washing machine every day. At this time, her brother-in-law said beside her: This washing machine consumes too much electricity. Does the electricity bill have to be several hundred yuan this month?

04.

The Woods heard her sister-in-law and said nothing. She once heard her mother say that this sister-in-law is too fierce and smart. It was the first time that she realized her fierceness and shrewdness.

After living for 10 days, my sister-in-law didn't give Lin Hao a bad look, and the Woods couldn't live any longer. She transferred 2,000 yuan of living expenses to her mother through WeChat, which is the living expenses of 10 days.

She knows that her mother doesn't want to, but she doesn't want to embarrass her mother alone, and she doesn't want her brothers and sisters to have something to say to herself.

Lin Zi made an appointment with her husband, who drove to pick her up and the children after work. The Woods teased the baby while tidying his clothes.

Sister-in-law, wearing high heels, pattered towards her room: Are you going home?

Linzi nodded and said nothing, and she didn't want to talk.

Sister-in-law said: it costs a lot to have one more person at home. This month, the water and electricity bills have been overrun, and the living expenses have also been overrun. When I go back to my parents' house, I will either buy my own food or pay my living expenses directly. Our family can't afford a freeloader.

Lin Zi said coldly: I have transferred 2000 yuan of living expenses to your mother-in-law, and she will give it to you then.

Lin Zi went downstairs with her child in her arms, got in the car driven by her husband and went back to her home. Later, Lin Zi seldom brought her husband back to her mother's house with her children.

Sometimes she misses her parents so much that she will take them out and stay at her house for a while.

Although I don't like my sister-in-law, I don't care about anything as long as my sister-in-law looks at my brother's face and respects my parents.

10 emotional message: Some people say that we should thank the one-child policy in the last decade, because it has given women the best and most respected status.

Perhaps according to the secular point of view, I think that the daughter's marriage belongs to someone else's family, and the brother's marriage belongs to the sister-in-law's own family.

Generally, a family with a younger brother or brother, whether it is a sister or a younger sister, will be more embarrassed and uncomfortable when going back to her mother's house.

Because I'm afraid my brother or younger brother will quarrel with me, or my daughter-in-law will have trouble with her mother.

In fact, sometimes, we should learn to put ourselves in others' shoes. No matter who and where a woman marries, her home will always be her own.

I also hope that no matter the eldest sister-in-law or the younger sister-in-law, when treating the aunt who goes back to her family, she should not say more about tolerance, but at least show basic respect.

If your aunt is reasonable and kind to you, then you don't have to be aggressive and show her face.

Why do women embarrass women? If both sides are more considerate, understanding and empathetic, the relationship will naturally get better and better.