The troubles of kindergarten large classes

"Mom, I don't want to go to kindergarten tomorrow!"

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"Mom, I don't want to go to kindergarten tomorrow!"

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20 18 at the beginning of March, the second semester of the big class started soon, and this sentence was repeated again. No matter when eating or before going to bed, I began to mutter like Xianglin, pouting and frowning all day, almost returning to the state when I was three years old and just entered the park. So, after washing in the evening, I sat face to face on the big bed with nails:

"Well, nail it, then tell me the reason why you don't want to go to kindergarten!"

I looked him in the eye and asked him seriously.

"There is no reason, just don't want to go! Just don't want to go! "

The nailed face is covered with dark clouds, lightning and thunder, ready to lose his temper.

"Well, then don't go, don't go to kindergarten, and don't go to elementary school!"

"ah! Why? "

Nail looked at me in surprise.

"Do you think you can go to cut class?"

"no!"

Nailing is always rational and reasonable.

"Since you must go, go happily!"

I looked at the nail, lowered my head, and then continued.

"What is the reason why you don't want to go? Think about it and tell me, and we will solve it together, ok? "

The little guy was silent for a moment, and then said slowly:

"first, take a nap in kindergarten ... the children are so noisy that I can't sleep. Liu Xinyi next to me always talks to me. "

Well, I used to say that a lot. As children grow older, their energy becomes more and more vigorous, and sometimes they can't sleep, which is normal.

"Oh, ok, anything else?"

"Second, in class, the children are so noisy that I can't listen, and they always call me to bother me."

Well, that's a problem. Now that the two classes are in class together, it is inevitable to be naughty, and it will also affect others if they can't sit still. Primary schools will encounter similar problems when they get along with their classmates.

"Third, the teacher is too fierce and always yells at the children."

"Is it time for children to be disobedient and emotional?"

I asked.

"Yes!"

Nail nodded and immediately continued.

"Before the child was naughty, the teacher was not so fierce! Now our class teacher never laughs! "

"Oh, I see."

This matter was said just a few days after the start of school. I communicated with their class teacher at that time. The teacher is really strict this semester. The teacher hopes that the children will adapt to the rhythm of the school as soon as possible before going to primary school and cultivate good study habits. Moreover, I have asked other parents that the child's reaction is still adaptable and acceptable. According to my usual observation, their class teacher is still very responsible. I can be sure that I don't like people making noise or talking loudly since I was a child. Even if it wasn't for him, he couldn't stand yelling at others. But it's a blessing in disguise, and I think it's a good time to exercise his heart. Nail households are fragile and can't bear external stimuli, but children can't live under our protection forever. He needs to adapt to and bear all kinds of gifts given to him by the world.

"Mom, can you understand me?"

I was lost in thought and suddenly said to me. Listen to him ask me so seriously, I can't help but smile and say to him:

"Baby, mom certainly understands you. I had the same experience as you in kindergarten. Didn't mom tell you many stories about her childhood? Well, are there any other questions? "

"Fourth, ... fourth, I forgot. Let's talk about it when I think about it! "

I sat opposite the nail, and after listening to his story, I had an idea in my heart. And I feel that after he finished speaking, his mood seems to be calmer and he has no anxiety just now.

"Well, your question is really annoying. Mom also encountered such a thing when she was a child, so let's find a way to solve these problems together, ok? "

Look at me and blink.

"What can I do? I don't think it can be solved. "

The child said gloomily.

"Of course, do you think I should go to kindergarten and tell your teacher that you can't sleep well when the children are noisy at noon, and you won't listen when the children are noisy in class? You should also tell the teacher that you should be gentle with your children and not be so strict. "

"Well, don't."

Nail hurriedly waved and shook his head.

"Mom, even if you talk about it, it's no use. They are still like that! "

"What shall we do?"

………

We were silent for a long time when the nail suddenly looked up and said to me:

"Mom, I think I have to solve it myself!"

"Oh, that mother will teach you a way!"

"What way?"

The children are refreshed.

"Remember the story of outstanding student Fan Xiaotong?"

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"Fan Xiaotong?"

Nail it and roll your eyes.

"oh! Mom, you mean that thing ... "

The corners of the children's mouths rose slightly, as if they had found a good way!

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A few days later,

It's another Sunday night.

"Mom, I'm going to kindergarten tomorrow!"

Nail said to me with a smile.

"Well, by the way, have you solved all your problems?"

"solved!"

The children answered simply and neatly.

"oh? Did Liu Xinyi stop calling you while you were sleeping? "

"No, she called me anyway!"

Nailing is easier said than done.

"Oh, what shall we do?"

"I ignored her, she kept screaming, so I ignored her and fell asleep!"

The little guy is very proud.

"So other children are not noisy in class?"

"No, they are still like that!"

Nails and turn your eyes.

"Oh, what shall we do?"

"I brought an anti-jamming device!"

"The kind of anti-interference device that the little monster gave to Fan Xiaotong (the character in the story book)?"

"hmm!"

The little guy nodded mysteriously.

"Where is it? Let mom have a look. "

"I am an invisible anti-jamming device!"

Nailed in my pocket, Tao Tao, with his empty palm up, held it up in front of me and said to me:

"Every day before class, I meditate on the anti-jamming device. I want to listen to the teacher carefully. Then I can only see and listen to the teacher. I can't see or hear anyone else. "

Oh! I see! Hehe, I'm sure what I just said is all lines from the book.

"Is the teacher soft?"

"hmm!"

This time, the child nodded.

"I saw Teacher Yan laughing, as if the voice was not that loud!"

"Mom, there's a football class tomorrow, I'm going to sleep, and I'm going to play a 10-0 tomorrow!"

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"Mom, will there be magical monsters in primary schools?"

One night before going to bed, you suddenly asked me.

"Oh, I'm not sure. Why don't you go and see it yourself after school? "

"Do you have it in your primary school?"

"I don't think I've seen it in primary school ... but maybe they haven't opened their cloaks yet!"

"……"

I blinked at the nail and smiled mysteriously.