He who walks alone is fast, and many walkers are far away

If this is a scene told by Qipa, the debate will probably be, do you think the influence of peer pressure on a person is more beneficial than harmful, or more harmful than beneficial?

Let's start with a familiar perspective, the WeChat circle of friends we brush every day. We will see all kinds of people sharing their lives, and of course everyone will share their good side.

In my circle of friends, there are doctors who are under great pressure to do scientific research in Tsinghua, WeChat businesses that earn a lot of money by sending product drawings and soft articles every day, and friends who travel abroad two or three times a year and send photos to the places I want to go most. ...

These are all invisible pressures from peers. Everyone will not want nothing, and you will have the mentality of keeping up with the joneses, but different people may have different degrees. Seeing that others are better than you and live better than you, there will naturally be a balance to measure in your heart, and there will be pressure in your heart.

I am only a mortal, so I will also be under the pressure of my peers.

So back to the question raised at the beginning, what does peer pressure bring, the advantages outweigh the disadvantages, or the disadvantages outweigh the advantages? I think the answer depends entirely on how you look at this pressure and how you release it.

If you are just jealous and hate the person who pretends to be forced in the circle of friends every day, no matter whether he is really as good and perfect as the circle of friends, you will lose. Peer pressure can only bring you disadvantages.

In my opinion, jealousy should happen when others have what you want and you are in a state of scarcity. On the other hand, it can also be seen as a small hint of your inner desire to be better.

If you are really jealous of someone in your circle of friends, ask yourself if he has the life you really want. If the answer is yes, then try and try to turn yourself into what you want. Then you can go to a circle of friends and inspire more people? (? )? "Wow, haha ~)

I am very lucky. I made many friends soon after I joined. One of them is a teacher, who is the editor-in-chief of IT topic deviation.

Because I am very interested in the topic of reptiles, I joined a small chat group and got to know Xiao, Cheng, Meow, Fish, Pig, Yuheng and Poppy. * * They are described by the boss as a group of funny and hard-working, enthusiastic and cold-hearted, and so motivated guys.

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I believe that no matter where you are, with such a group of partners as your fellow travelers, your life will inevitably be subtly affected.

In addition to discussing the technical problems about reptiles in the group every day, everyone will share a lot of their own lives.

The boss gets up at six o'clock every morning to run, and then asks good morning in the group. In his circle of friends, in addition to data analysis, it is the record of various marathons. Xiao is a graduate student. He will talk about "relaxed" academic life. Not long ago, Xiao Zhu was admitted to the graduate student of Chengdian, who he never forgot. Rou is a routine, an exam that I have been preparing for after work. ...

When the lazy pace of life meets such a group of struggling friends, it can't help but give birth to a kind of motivation to make yourself better and stronger.

Now our small group has been officially renamed python Crawler Team, and the first course is about to start. Almost 20 children's shoes have joined the team, both teasing and hard work, both warm and cold.

If you have friends who want to play with us, you will probably have to wait until the second course begins. But it doesn't matter, you can ask the running teacher to pull you into the python reptile starting group. There are also many great gods in this group. Most importantly, this is a completely free exchange group.

This is a soft article, and I don't have time to promote the boss course, but I still want to use it to record a happy time, which is a beautiful preface for our upcoming python course.