Why did Andy choose Bao Yifan?

When watching the first season of Ode to Joy, maybe you are as sorry as I am, or wondering what happened between Andy and Weiwei and why they can't be together. They're all fine. Wei Wei cares so much about Andy that she is happy and he is happy. She is in pain, and so is he. Even in the second season, Andy was a little melodramatic and far-fetched when she confided the pain of breaking up with Manager Bao after drinking, but when she saw Manager Hou's moderate courtship performance, the answer seemed self-evident.

Viagra is very nice. But good people don't necessarily become lovers, so they are suitable for marriage. Judging from Wei Xiong's various behaviors, he can be an upright tutor or an elegant listener, but if they get married, the two of them may have some hard work.

Facing Andy's life experience, Vivian showed deep sympathy and helped her solve it, but in the end Vivian lost her because of insufficient supply, calculation and cowardice. Wei Wei is cautious in making friends, just like a machine. You need to go through identification, inspection and other processes to verify whether he is an enemy or a friend before you can enter his territory. Andy's looks and abilities meet his requirements, but Andy's life background also makes him a little uneasy. He hopes to cure Andy as soon as possible. Just like doctors treat patients, he tried various methods, consulted doctors and contacted Andy's father, Wei Guoqiang. In his way, he tried to get Andy to face the problem and solve it in the name of love, but failed. He spent a lot of thought. Some practices do not show respect and trust for Andy, such as arranging without Andy's knowledge.

Vivian loves Andy. He understands Andy's pain, but he loves himself more. Just like some parents' efforts to their children, they keep saying "I'm doing it for you", but in fact it has become a burden for their children. It's not so much love as self-assertion. In the emotional world, sometimes companionship is more important than arrangement. Andy is proud and kind, but she also has a weak side. She doesn't want to face her past and her life. Like a death notice. Facing Wei Wei, she not only has no secrets, but also needs to face her inner fears and uneasiness. She doesn't want to embarrass herself in front of Vivian, and she doesn't want to drag Vivian down. Therefore, breaking up has become a natural choice. Wei Wei also paid the price for its self-assertion and cross-border behavior.

what is love ? Love is acceptance and companionship. Love is an attractive relationship between * * * and * * glory, not a competitive relationship between east wind and west wind. Love is not a struggle. Stay together, stay together, and break up if you disagree. Those who are still thinking about who to change or for whom, maybe you are not suitable from beginning to end.

Bao Yifan is different. Although a little coquettish and mean, Andy's helpless tone is "rogue and cheeky" But from another point of view, his scoundrel has a lion-like persistence, which is precisely the embodiment of his self-confidence and responsibility, the affirmation of his own vision, and the trust and respect for Andy.

It can be said that Bao Yi, a psychologist who understands people, at least understands women's hearts. Who says not? ! As a well-known rich second generation, how many people utilitarian echo him? He is also a man who has seen the world, seen countless flowers and read all the books about Qian Fan. There is no phenomenon that Mrs. Bao is confused by the fox. She knows what she is pursuing. He likes Andy and her simple and simple personality, unlike some men and women who mix too many worldly things in their communication, such as the desire to worship money and the ambition to conquer. Whether this kind of thing is forced by in our nature, reality or family environment, how much utility and calculation are the influence of pure relationship. According to Qu Xiaoyu's serious skill theory, Bao Yi is a person who is not serious, has the ability and pursues the truth.

As Tan said, the pursuit of happiness is human instinct. Facing Vivian, Andy is sometimes like a rabbit trapped in a maze, hysterical and crazy, which is a kind of tension. It is much easier to face Bao Yifan.

Bao Yifan's attitude towards his lover is different from that of Wei Wei. He won't study Andy and let her face or expose her scars. He is as flexible and shameless as winding water and wandering snakes. He doesn't ask what Andy doesn't want to say, shows respect, accepts the past that Andy doesn't want to talk about, and helps Andy find an emotional outlet that makes her happy. Like a peacock with an open screen, she shows off her muscles and cooking skills, coquetry and begging for comfort from time to time, trying her best for her girlfriend, just asking for a smile from a beauty. He was also attacked by his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but it is also very rare to see clearly what he wants and protect his lover after calming down.

Think of a sentence: "When I saw him crying in front of me, I knew I lost and I couldn't give her happiness." Although a little melodramatic, a long-term love relationship should be a comfortable state of mutual satisfaction and together, right? !

Bao Yifan gave Andy the most unburdened love without asking why he accepted it, pursuing it from the heart and using his feelings regardless of gains and losses. Andy is perfect in Bao Yifan's eyes, and he is proud, confident and happy around Bao Yifan. Is there any reason for Andy not to choose him? ! The one who makes himself better.