How to comfort others to work overtime

First, the physiological level of concern.

At present, there are still a lot of news about sudden death from fatigue in the workplace, but women are actually more vulnerable than men. Suggest that your girlfriend arrange rest and working hours reasonably. You can have a fixed time to communicate with her, and suggest a good rest time, take medicine regularly, and set up an emergency contact. If you live alone, you have to consider how to deal with dangers and emergencies. It's all about some magic your girlfriend can do.

If your girlfriend often works late, besides everything your girlfriend can do, you need to do something to make her feel warm. For example, if you have hot meals after work, give her a massage, prepare foot bath water for her feet, take good care of her and let her know that you are there. Sometimes practical actions are better than verbal care.

Second, psychological care.

Actually, my girlfriend is under great psychological pressure when she works late. She also wants to have a comfortable job and doesn't want to work like this, but your conditions don't allow it. At this time, you can talk more about the future with your girlfriend, talk about your plans and ideas, and put them into action, not just sweet talk.

Girlfriend often works late because you can't give her a good life. She wants to work hard to create a better life for you. At this time, you should make plans for your future as hard as her, so that your girlfriend will feel happy, but you can relax yourself when you work hard and go out to watch a movie or have a picnic. Just like in high school, if you work hard and everyone around you is working hard, you will unconsciously feel the joy of this effort! Buy what she likes to eat and buy what she likes to drink for her. Don't care about her only in words, but also in actions.

@ Unique: The girlfriend who cares about overtime is that every time she gets off work or is busy, I will say that she has worked hard and then hug her. When she is busy with my rest, she always wants to buy him something she likes to eat and drink. When both of them are free, she is willing to go out to play together. It's best to communicate more, and say anything wrong in time.