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The story of crab fishing Anyone who has caught crabs may know that there are a group of crabs in the basket, so there is no need to cover them. Crabs can't climb out, because as long as one wants to climb up, other crabs will hug it one by one, and as a result, it will be pulled down, and finally no one can get out. There are often some members in enterprises who don't like to see other people's achievements and excellent performances, and try their best to destroy and suppress them every day. If it is not removed, over time, only a group of crabs will remain in the organization, which will restrict each other and have no output. Organizations should also attach importance to and remove the so-called "crab culture". The story of the eagle feeding the eagle The eagle is the strongest race among all birds. According to the research of zoologists, this may be related to the eating habits of eagles. Eagles give birth to four or five baby eagles at a time. Because their nests are very high, the food they hunt back can only be fed to one baby eagle at a time. The feeding method of the eagle is not based on the principle of equality, but is given to whoever catches the fierce eagle. In this case, the thin eagle died without food, and the fiercest one survived. Generation after generation, the eagle family is getting stronger and stronger. This story tells us that "fairness" cannot be an accepted principle in an organization. Without an appropriate elimination system, an organization will often delay its evolution because of small benevolence, and will naturally be eliminated in a competitive environment. This is a story of survival of the fittest. Broken arrow will never be a general if he doesn't believe in his will. During the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, a father and son went to war. The father became a general and the son was just a pawn. Another horn sounded, the drums roared, and my father solemnly raised an quiver with an arrow in it. The father solemnly said to his son, "This is the treasure arrow at home. It is extremely powerful when you carry it with you, but you must never take it out. " This is an extremely delicate quiver, made of thick cowhide, inlaid with faint shiny copper edges, and look at the arrow's exposed tail. You can tell at a glance that it is made of fine peacock feathers. The son was beaming and greedily speculated about the appearance of the arrow, as if the sound of the arrow whizzed past his ear, and the enemy commander fell off his horse and died. Sure enough, the son with the treasure arrow is heroic and invincible. When the trumpet sounded, the son could no longer resist the heroic spirit of victory, completely abandoned his father's advice, and a strong desire drove him to shout and pull out his treasure arrow to find out. Suddenly he was shocked. A broken arrow, there is a broken arrow in the quiver. I have been fighting with a broken arrow! My son broke out in a cold sweat, as if the house had lost its pillar in an instant and collapsed. The result is self-evident, and my son died tragically in the disorderly army. Blowing away the misty smoke, my father picked up the broken arrow and spat heavily: "If you don't believe in your will, you will never be a general." How stupid it is to pin victory or defeat on a precious arrow, and how dangerous it is for a person to give the core and handle of life to others! For example, pin your hopes on children; Put happiness on her husband; Put your life safety on the unit ... hint: you are an arrow. If you want to make it tough, if you want to make it sharp, if you want to make it go through a hundred paces and hit a hundred shots, you can only sharpen it and save it. There is a man named Abage who lives in the grassland of Inner Mongolia. Once, the young Abago and his father got lost on the grassland. Abag was tired and afraid, and finally he couldn't walk. Dad took five coins out of his pocket, buried one coin in the grass, put the other four coins in Abago's hand, and said, "There are five gold coins in life, one for childhood, adolescence, youth, middle age and old age. You have only used one now, that is, the one buried in the grass. You can't throw all five coins into the grass. You should use them bit by bit and use them differently every time. " We must go out of the grassland today, and you must go out of the grassland in the future. The world is very big. When people are alive, they should go to more places and see more. Don't throw away your gold coins if they are useless. "That day, with the encouragement of his father, Abag walked out of the grassland. When he grew up, Abag left his hometown and became an excellent captain. There are two brothers who sweep the sun, but they are only four or five years old. Because the bedroom window is closed all day, they think the room is too dark, and they feel envious when they see the bright sunshine outside. The two brothers discussed and said, "We can sweep some sunshine together and come in. "So, the two brothers took brooms and dustpans and went to the balcony to sweep the sun. When they moved the dustpan into the room, there was no sunshine inside. After repeated sweeps, there was still no sunshine in the room. My mother, who is busy in the kitchen, saw their strange behavior and asked, "What are you doing? They replied, "The room is too dark. We should sweep some sunshine in." Mother smiled: "As long as you open the window, the sun will naturally come in." Why do you have to sweep? "Secret: Open the closed heart door, and the sunshine of success will dispel the darkness of failure. What kind of people do I want to cooperate with? Someone once interviewed Bill Gates about the secret of his success. Bill Gates said: Because there are more successful people working for me. There are many successful people, but I have never known them in my life and I can't work for them. Let successful people work for me. At this stage, I don't have the strength. Only cooperation is what I like and appreciate most. I also try my best to cooperate fairly with more people with a relaxed environment and active team, and run an anti-risk career for myself in the future. My favorite person to cooperate with should have the following characteristics: First, I am unwilling. 2 1 century, the biggest crisis is that there is no sense of crisis, and the biggest trap is satisfaction. People should learn to see the world through a telescope, not through myopia. Think about finding a way out for yourself in prosperity, and know how to find a way out for yourself in adversity. Second, you have a strong learning ability. Education represents the past, and learning ability controls the future. You should learn from any details and everyone, and you should learn to draw inferences from others. The most important thing is that learning is actually learning, learning. Learn once and do it a hundred times before you truly master it. Learning, doing and teaching is a complete process. Only when we reach the level of teaching can we really understand. And more often, learning is an attitude. Only modest people can really learn something. The sea is a sea because it is lower than all rivers. Third, strong action. Only actions will have results. Different actions lead to different results. Knowing not to do it means not knowing, and doing it without results means not doing it. If you don't make mistakes, you will make mistakes, because those who don't make mistakes must not try. It doesn't matter if you are wrong, you must be good at summing up and then do it until the correct result comes out. Fourth, we should know how to give. If you want to be outstanding, you must pay first. A man who haggles over every ounce has only two pounds in his life. With a little enterprising spirit, starting a business is impossible. Let others know that your value is greater than what you get, and others will pay a higher price. Fifth, have a strong sense of communication. There is no limit to communication. It is more an attitude than a skill. Of course, a good team must have the same vision, which can't be achieved in one day. Need to communicate all the time, from goals to details, even to family and so on. , are the contents of communication. Sixth, sincere and generous. Everyone has different positions, so it is impossible to ask for the same interests. The key is that everyone should be frank and clear, and don't compromise. Believe that honesty is the best cornerstone of cooperation. Seven, have the most basic moral values. Once a reporter was writing at home, and his four-year-old son clamored for his company. The reporter was very angry, so he tore the back cover of a magazine and said to his son, "You put the world map together first, and dad will play with you." "After less than five minutes, my son came to hold his hand again and said," Dad, I'm finished spelling. Come and play with me! " "The reporter is very angry:" It is understandable for children to play, but it is not good to tell lies. " How can you spell out the map of the world so quickly! "My son is very wronged:" But I really fought! "When the reporter saw it, it really happened: No? There are prodigies at home? He asked curiously, "How did you do it?" The son said: On the back of the world map is a person's head. I spell it backwards. As long as I fight this man, the world will be complete. So be a man in advance. If a person does well, his world will be good. Chen Anzhi's super success theory also mentioned: first work for successful people, then cooperate with successful people, and finally let successful people work for you.

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