After the birth of the child, my husband has been reluctant to bring it. How should I communicate with him?

People who have never taken care of their children never know how tired it will be to take care of them. Perhaps many treasure moms have heard their husbands say to themselves, "Isn't it just bringing a child?" can

How tired, not as tired as I am at work! "With this idea, men will no longer think about helping their wives and children. If your husband doesn't want to take care of the baby, look at this baby mother's practice, which is worth learning.

First of all, tell him that the role of father is very important in the process of children's growth. In fact, this should be done during pregnancy. For example, from time to time, I will share with him several articles such as "Research shows that fathers are smarter in raising children", as well as some popular science materials and so on. Let him know that spending more time with his father in infancy will have a positive effect on the child's future intellectual and personality development, so that he can prepare psychologically in advance in a subtle way, so that he will not naturally become the shopkeeper of cutting hands after the child is born.

In family life, we should discuss more and communicate more, listen to some useful and effective suggestions and opinions from our father, and let him participate in the process of parenting. Don't always think that a man who doesn't take care of his baby doesn't respect his opinions and feelings. He always puts on a gesture of commanding him or laughing at his suggestions. Over time, his heart became cold.

Don't be too brave. Most women like to be brave, especially when they are mothers. 24 hours around the baby, I still feel that I am not good enough. Why bother?

Babies are the most difficult species in the world. It keeps spinning and jumping every day. If you really follow it, you will either be exhausted or paralyzed. Don't try to be brave at this time, admit that your physical strength and energy can't keep up, and let the "pig teammates" help, right?

Of course, some people will say that the problem is that "pig teammates" are unwilling to help? Do you think husbands all over the world are like yours?

Men need your encouragement.

Ma Bao should understand that men need a sense of ceremony. When you involve men in parenting, you can record many firsts between them and their children, such as changing diapers for the first time, holding children for the first time, and making milk powder for the first time. We can all record it with videos or photos.