"Daughter, you can't marry him because he can't get the bride price." "Mom, I believe him." what do you think?

The bride price, also known as the bride price in ancient times, was given to the woman's family by the man according to her requirements and her own economic situation when she got married. The bride price not only represents the economic situation of the man's family, but also represents the sincerity of the man to marry the woman and the value of the woman. Although some places have abandoned this custom, it still exists in many places.

Yan Yan was born in an upper-middle class family. Her family is neither rich nor expensive, but she has never suffered. She has been well-fed since she was a child, and her personality is relatively simple. She has been protected by her family. It can be said that she is an inexperienced girl. When she graduated from college, Xinxin was 22 years old. Although she is simple and introverted, she also has her own stubborn side. Once she has decided something, she will never give in, and she is an introverted and independent person.

After graduation, Xinxin's parents arranged for her to work in a listed company, but Xinxin refused. She has something she likes and doesn't want to go to that company or rely on connections. Her parents couldn't beat her and had to follow her. After that, Xinxin found a craft job. Because she is naturally introverted, she is particularly fascinated by these things that require quiet and hard work. In the workshop, Xinxin met a boy with dark skin but sunshine, but he was a little too thin.

After understanding, Xinxin knew that the boy's name was Ye Qi, and he came from a remote mountain village in this city, also known as a child from the mountains. Ye Qi is two years older than Xinxin, and her family is very poor. He didn't come out to work until junior high school Because there are brothers and sisters at home and both parents have gone out to work, he has been staying in the village to take care of his brothers and sisters while working at the construction site. It can be said that he is both a father and a mother. Six months before Xin Xin went to the workshop, Ye went from the mountain to the city to look for a job.

Ye Qi knows that his education is not high, so he can be a carpenter he is familiar with. It took only a few months for Ye Qi to become the workshop director. When Yan Yan first came, she worked under Ye Qi. Simple and honest Ye Qi and simple and kind Yan Xin soon became good friends. Ye Qi will tell Yan Xin a lot about his village, and Yan Xinhui will tell him about his school. Later, going to work became something that Yan Yan looked forward to every day. They are Ye Qi that Yan Yan actively pursues. Although Ye Qi felt that she was not worthy of her, Yan Yan insisted and finally agreed.

They have a harmonious personality, even their skin colors are black and white, and they are often teased by colleagues as a natural couple. Unconsciously, they have been together for four years. Although Ye Qi sends money home every month, he also saves some money, and he has never treated Yan Yan badly at ordinary times. Yan Yan knew that Ye Qi was not rich, and she never asked him to buy anything expensive for herself. She always asked him to make a pair of puppets for himself as souvenirs. Yan Yan has been fantasizing about her future marriage with Ye Qi. For her, she had long thought that Ye Qi was her future husband.

But their relationship was opposed by Yan Yan's parents. Although Ye Qi is honest and kind to Yan Yan, he may not be able to give Yan Yan a good life. Parents naturally worry that their daughter will suffer with him. Even if they are going to get married, Ye Qi can't afford tens of thousands of dollars as a bride price. How can they marry their own daughter? Did you give him your daughter who has been raised for more than 20 years for nothing? So Xinxin's parents are firmly opposed to them being together. This time, Yan Yan is useless no matter how tough she is. Finally, she even forced Ye Qi to break up voluntarily. He thinks Yan Yan's parents are right. He can't let Yan Yan suffer with him in the future. If she drags on, it will waste Yan Yan's youth.

Because of this, Yan Yan and her parents fell out. She knows that Ye Qi has no money, and she is going to cook with Ye Qi in the future, but she is willing to do all this. Because she believes in Ye Qi, that he will always be good to himself, and that he will get ahead one day, even if she can't get the bride price now, she doesn't care. In Yan Yan's eyes, bride price is a bad habit. Because these tens of thousands of dollars delay the love of two people, it is not worth it. She doesn't need to buy a house now She believes that as long as we work together, we will have a car and a house one day.

Yuzryha was ashamed of Yan Yan's firmness, and Yuzryha abandoned her inferiority complex and insisted on being with Yan Yan. Finally, Yan Yan's parents had to agree with them. Who makes Yan Yan a treasure in their hands? After getting married, Ye Qi and Xinxin scraped together some money and opened a handicraft workshop together. Life was busy and dull. Although I still live in a rented house with only tens of square meters, I can only commute to work by bike every day. It is not as good as office workers sitting in the office blowing air conditioners from nine to five and living in luxury cars every day, but it is also very beautiful.

Emotional message: A beautiful love and life is not necessarily a luxury house and luxury car, but also exists because of an appraisal heart and the same goal.