Dabaocao

April 2nd is Autism Day. I remembered a scene on the soft sleeper of the train last year.

I take my son back to my hometown by train every summer vacation. Every time I meet different people on the train, I have a normal job and a normal life. The so-called sentient beings are just a microcosm of a person, and I am not particularly impressed. What impressed me the most was seeing a family of four named Dabao Xiaocao.

Soft sleepers are hard to buy every summer vacation. I bought the upper berth this time, so it's a little troublesome to take my son to sleep in the upper berth. Before getting on the bus, I think it's best to change with someone in the same berth. According to past experience, an adult can change it by sleeping in the lower berth. It's easier to sleep in the upper bunk. After all, the upper berth of this soft sleeper can still sit and lie down, which is quiet and comfortable and will not disturb the children below. Unless the passengers in the lower berth are old and disrespectful; Otherwise, unless he is unfortunate, he also has children, so he can't change it.

Came to our own soft sleeper car, went in and saw two children and a couple. This couple is estimated to be about the same age as me. The age gap between the two children is a bit big. The older one is a boy, with big eyes and thick lips, lying quietly in the lower berth, estimated to be about twelve years old. The little girl has a Zhang Yuanyuan face, a small mouth and big eyes. She is estimated to be only three years old. Watching my son and I come in, I shyly hid behind my mother, but when I smiled and said kindly, "Hello, little friend!" " After that, this little guy politely called me "Aunt" in return for his mother's gift, and even affectionately called his son "Brother" and "Brother", because the little toy puzzle in his hand attracted the little girl at once.

After the luggage was packed, the train set off on time. No one entered our bunk. It seems that a family of four bought three beds, and the boy is old and may like the upper bunk. The little girl's mother and little girl needed a lower berth, so I got up the courage to say, can you two lower berths exchange with you? I took my child with me, worried that it was not safe for him to climb up and down. Unexpectedly, the boy's father said, we need two lower bunks, which are not easy to change. I'm sorry

Don't change if you don't want to. Although it is unpleasant to be rejected in your heart, you can't force it. I just think this family may not be easy to get along with. I also responded politely: Oh, never mind. Our little guy may like the upper berth, but I'm a little worried that it's not safe enough. My son seemed to hear something and really shouted, Mom, are we the upper bunk? I like the upper berth. I can climb everywhere. I smiled and said, it's the upper berth, which you like. But be careful!

Before the words were finished, my son began to climb up. Little girl wants to climb, too. I smiled and said, "You are too young to climb. How old are you? What's your name? " The little girl ignored my question and insisted on climbing with her son. Her mother is coming. "Grass, you are not easy to climb. My brother is older than you. " Her mother held her daughter in her arms. "Tell aunt, how old are we?" "Three years old." "Wow, good boy! The name of the grass is nice, and the sound of the grass is really nice! " "We have two children, one is Dabao and the other is Xiaocao."

After listening to her mother introduce her two children, I glanced at Dabao lying in bed. At this time, I happened to see him with his mouth open, his hands clenched like claws, his hands in front of his mouth, shaking his teeth and head. I'm confused. What happened to that boy? However, the boy's movements soon disappeared. He lay there quietly, staring at the ceiling.

"At which station do you get off?"

"Let's go home, the north sea. Get off at the terminal. "

"We are going to Beihai, too."

"Are you going to travel?"

"No, we bought a house in Beihai and decorated it. Now let's go and have a look. Anyway, the children are on holiday and the business is not so busy. We also came to Beihai to live for a while. "

"Very well, where are you from?"

"Wenzhou's."

"Wenzhou is quite good. Where did you buy a house in Beihai ... "

In order not to let Xiaocao climb up and down with his son, I asked my son to take out the puzzle and play with Dabao's brother and Xiaocao's sister. The son proudly took out his plane puzzle and waved it in front of Dabao. Maybe all boys will like this toy. However, this big treasure didn't care at all. Grass cried happily, but his son said, you can't spell. The grass said desperately, I will. The dialogue between children is ridiculous.

Seeing that the two little guys have been playing like friends, the unhappiness of not changing stores before quickly vanished with the speeding of the train. Wenzhou businessmen bought houses and invested everywhere, and even bought my hometown. What a coincidence! You won't meet them again in the street of your hometown, will you?

The scenery outside the window is becoming more and more familiar. The rolling peaks, large areas of Yuan Ye, green vegetable fields and winding rivers are refreshing. When I wanted my son to come and enjoy the beautiful scenery, I turned my head and saw Dabao again. He gritted his teeth and clenched his fist, looking a little crazy. Then this action was repeated several times, which increasingly confirmed that the child may not be particularly normal.

It was already dark outside, and Dabao, who had been lying, suddenly got up. Without saying a word, he put on his shoes and left the bunk. I thought he was going to the bathroom, but he came out with his luggage. "Dabao, you can't get off now! Dabao, you can't get off now! " Hearing his mother shouting loudly, the child's father came to hug him and wouldn't let him go out. I didn't expect him to be strong enough to push his father down on the lower bunk bed at once, but his barbaric action made the other two little guys happy. The son shouted, "Dabao won! Dabao is the first! " The grass giggled and shouted, Brother first. I also smiled awkwardly.

Unexpectedly, at this time, Bao Xiao's mother said calmly, "We Dabao are autistic." The laughter of the two children is still there, but I can't laugh. Looking at this young mother, with such a strong face and so many secrets hidden in her wrinkles, I feel guilty about asking for a new store. I think about it carefully, only to find that I have never heard this Dabao say a word. All the sandwiches and biscuits he ate were put on the table in one bite ... this is the first time I have been so close to someone who thinks he is autistic.

? Dabao will climb the upper berth, too. But he won't. He was very upset and made a deep voice. The son said, Dabao is really stupid. Dabao is too old to climb.

"He can't compete with you." Dabao's mother said.

"At first, I couldn't accept it. Why my son? Now he is in a special school, and the teacher says that he has a big temper and is not very good at math and Chinese ... Grass always asks me, Mom, why doesn't my brother talk ... "

Why my son? This sentence, like a knife, is deeply imprinted in my mind. Without Dabao, this home would be ordinary and ordinary. However, there are so many things in the world, so in a hurry, who can tell?

The train has arrived. We didn't meet again.