It's either a surprise or a shock. Tell me about it.

If your gift brings shock to the other party instead of surprise, then you can apologize to her and express your apologies and regrets. Your saying "I'm sorry to disturb your life" may convey your feelings for her and your reflection on your behavior. You can try the following methods to alleviate this embarrassment:

"I'm sorry, I wanted to give you a surprise, but I didn't expect to scare you. I hope you can accept my apology. I will pay more attention to choosing gifts in the future to ensure that they can make you feel happy and comfortable. "

Through this expression, you show your apology and say that you will try to change your behavior and avoid similar situations from happening again. This will help ease her dissatisfaction and make your relationship more harmonious.