How can a daughter-in-law cry when her mother-in-law dies?

Interesting question. I thought, who died is different from crying? On second thought, it seems not.

The difference is because the relationship between crying and death is different. Feel different, too.

If mom and dad are gone, that kind of crying is from the heart. Whether it is silent crying or wailing, it is a heartbreaking sadness.

If a friend dies, that kind of crying is a kind of reluctance and nostalgia. It's hard to see My friend cried holding the coffin when he left.

When her mother-in-law died, she cried in a different mood. If she cared about herself when she was alive, she would cry silently or loudly.

If the relationship is not good, also want to take part in accidental amusement shed some tears. If you have a bad relationship with your mother-in-law, you are better than your husband. Maybe you don't even bother to cry, just watch the fun.

Not that I'm stingy. I did meet such a wife. Her mother-in-law just died, and she didn't leave any face in the hospital. She scolded her mother-in-law's body, and her husband dared not speak when he saw her, and scolded his own mother. I am angry. I am an external contractor.

So I said, how to cry when your mother-in-law is gone depends on your previous relationship.

Born unfilial, died screaming, how to cry is crying to outsiders, as long as you have a clear conscience and live up to your conscience, no matter what you do to show your face to outsiders, you will be judged.

I didn't cry when my mother died, which made my second aunt and second aunt very dissatisfied. What if you are not satisfied?

My mother has been ill for five or six years, unable to take care of herself, incontinent, and her thinking has gradually deteriorated. She has a bad temper, and it is common to call names and hit people. I can't take care of her all the time in the distance, but I also go back to see her every holiday, help her wash her hair, wash her feet, scratch her ears, accompany her and take care of her. During the years when she was ill, we all tried our best to go back to her parents' house to spend the New Year with my mother.

I bought diapers of various specifications, washable and disposable, diapers, portable toilets and pants. Every time I buy, I buy a dozen or twenty pairs. At home, my brother lives with my parents, my brother works, and my father and brother-in-law take care of my mother the most.

My mother's death was expected by our whole family, and all the preparations were made in advance. In her last days, the family tried to meet all her needs as much as possible. Even if my mother said at lunch that she wanted to eat steamed buns at night, my father immediately started making steamed buns after cleaning up the dishes and chopsticks.

We were all very sad when my mother died, but before her death, our whole family tried their best to meet her needs. The biggest regret of my mother's death was on her family.

In the last year of my mother's life, I really want to go back to my mother's house. My father called my grandmother several times. The old lady is over eighty years old, either here or there. She's not at home, and my mother didn't go back to her family anywhere.

My second aunt said that she had seen my second aunt three times in the town fair, and every time she told my second aunt that she was going to see my mother, saying that my mother was very ill and missed her family, but my second aunt told her that she didn't have time, and we would talk about it when she had time. Until the end, my mother was dying, unconscious and went. What's the use of her going or not at that time?

My mother died at four in the morning. My father, my husband and I, and my brother and wife, we always stay with her. My second aunt and my aunt are at my brother's house and start sleeping at ten o'clock. It wasn't until my mother died that they came and wailed, crying earth-shattering, saying that she was suffering there, and they were equally uncomfortable.

The next day, when I was awake, my brother and daughter-in-law and I were in the house all the time. My mother was in a coma for nearly four days. For four whole days, we didn't take off our clothes to sleep. At best, we just stared at my mother for a while. Later generations are really haggard and have no feelings.

My second aunt and my younger sister are sitting in the house. When no one came, the two sisters kept whispering and didn't know what to say. As soon as someone entered the room, he began to cry, criticizing his sister's affection while crying. People are gone, and they continue to coo.

Maybe there is a custom that says so, but I can't cry. I think my mother has been ill for so many years and lived too hard, and finally she is free.

A strong person like her has been particularly strong since she was a child. She can't stand that. When I bought her crutches, she refused to live or die. She would rather stand against the wall than lean on crutches.

She said it was ugly, not that bad. Later, I bought her a beautiful crutch, with a semiconductor, a lamp and a telescopic one, and she reluctantly accepted it.

Before her will degenerated, she cried pitifully every time she peed or peed in her pants. She doesn't want to be like that She really doesn't want to accept herself like that.

She never asked me to help her clean. The only person she trusts is my father. Even when my father cleaned for her, she wouldn't let me in. She doesn't want to ruin her image in our hearts.

Such a strong person, after a few years, she is unwilling to accept, leaving may really be a relief.

Even when my mother was cremated, I watched her being pushed in. Finally, when we collected the ashes ourselves, my tears flowed to my neck, but I still couldn't cry.

My second aunt and younger aunt may be dissatisfied with me because I didn't cry like them. If they are not satisfied, they are not satisfied. I think their crying is more ironic. What's the point if they are not as affectionate as the sisters?

My brother's daughter-in-law, my mother's only daughter-in-law, never cried from beginning to end. Her tears flowed silently and quietly wiped away. Of course, many people say that she is not good, but our own family is very clear.

Besides my father, my mother trusts my brother's wife the most. When she is incontinent, she only asks my sister-in-law to clean up, because apart from my father, my sister-in-law has the most time to clean up. Married daughters, whether far away or near, can't take care of their parents compared with their younger brothers' sisters-in-law.

My mother spent the first seven days. Before I left, when I went to see my grandmother, my aunt said that when I saw my sister-in-law, I could see that she could not be kind to my mother.

I said that her care for my mother is incomparable to my own daughter, and people can't just look at the surface.

Pity my mother's sisters. I didn't even know how sick she was later, so when my mother died, we didn't care if they were satisfied with my brother and daughter-in-law.

The past is gone, and the dead are gone. Whether it is a mother-in-law or a daughter-in-law, the living always live, and living a good life is also a comfort to the deceased relatives.

As for the death of her mother-in-law, how does her daughter-in-law cry? A clear conscience, how to cry is a comfort to the deceased, why care about the opinions of irrelevant people?

How can a daughter-in-law cry when her mother-in-law dies? Will the funeral be held in the countryside or in the city?

It's easy to do it in the city, just show your sadness!

In rural areas, daughters-in-law usually wear mourning clothes and cover their faces with white cloth, but they just keep shouting! I'm afraid I can't cry. I put some sesame oil under my eyes. It looks like tears. The waiter has planned the route. And those who play suona and hold wreaths in front of you. Just follow the funeral procession!

20 17 10 month, 120 The last time I picked up my mother-in-law, her mother-in-law resisted. She didn't want to take the last step in the hospital and take it home in the intensive care unit two days later. My mother-in-law has four children. On the day she came home from the hospital, the whole family came back, watching her feet turn purple and her legs turn purple ... Several children rubbed her feet and hands respectively and kept asking in front of her: Do you want to drink water? Let's talk about those funny things before, saying that no matter how fat you are, you will say: just right, not fat, always saying that you can't go on a diet to lose weight ... we stayed with her all night.

I am really sad, and no one will care about me. I will report the quarrel between my husband and wife. When I scold his son to his face, I will say that he has a bad temper and everything else is fine. Every time I go to her house, she always says, Come on, melon seeds, help yourself and cut the fruit yourself. ...

Anyway, there are no worries about her, no more, and my mother-in-law has been away from our lives ever since.

My crying is a farewell to my past life and gratitude to my mother-in-law. At the same time, I also think of my mother, who has worked hard all her life but has not lived a good life for a few days, taking the opportunity to release the pressure in her life.

But it's true to say goodbye to your mother-in-law. Although my mother-in-law died at the age of 89, she never had a chance to chat again.

Take this opportunity to say to my mother-in-law: mom, it's been three years, are you okay? Thank you for your concern for me in the years after my mother died. As mothers-in-law, we are not natural enemies, we are mothers-in-law, and I respect you and you respect me. Dad fell and is recovering well now. You bless him to spend every day safely. Everyone will miss you and talk about you. Can you get the signal?

This is a very interesting question, which has practical guiding significance. It is really a good question for a daughter-in-law who basically doesn't know the rules and customs.

How can a mother-in-law cry without a daughter-in-law

This is a science with deep methods.

I have seen those people who are mourning and crying, which is especially funny, and at the same time my admiration arises spontaneously! [yi tooth]

Originally, the relationship was not close, but the countryside must pay attention to white things, otherwise it would be tantamount to self-destruction of the future. Therefore, close neighbors and friends will be present when they hear about it.

First, you must have a handkerchief. Generally, there are gates in rural yards. When you enter the gate, you should "howl" loudly (especially if the filial people behind you hear it and start crying). Let everyone hear, and at the same time, everyone looks sideways, turns around and looks up.

The veil cannot completely cover your eyes. You must leave a gap below to watch the road. Go straight to the front of the mourning hall, kowtow and cry bitterly, chanting: sister, aunt, aunt and so on. And the tone must be elongated. The lines are those words. Too soon [giggling].

Kneel and kowtow while crying. At this time, someone called her to come and pull her up, the handkerchief could be taken off, and the crying stopped. Only the mourners behind heard that someone was coming and began to cry again.

Therefore, there are more people mourning, and the crying must be wave after wave, which is very lively.

Then, go to the back and talk to the filial piety. Why did this man leave? This won't take long, just a minute or two, and then a few words of comfort. As soon as this ceremony is over, people should go and never drag their feet.

Why do you say so much? Let's talk about how a daughter-in-law should cry. Crying is necessary. Regardless of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the crying mother-in-law in rural areas is very particular. You can learn from some of the prescribed actions mentioned above, such as crying for it, not using handkerchiefs, and wearing mourning clothes that you can't finish. Those who came to pay their respects cried loudly and deeply. The louder the voice, the more filial they seemed.

It's a critical moment to send the spirit, to see the real chapter, and to call for heaven and land. Sometimes I cry all over my face, sometimes I bow my head to mourn, and I have a crying heart, and I have a crying heart! Crying badly, close relatives and neighbors came forward to help persuade. ...

However, the daughter-in-law who makes a big noise will always grasp the rhythm, cry when she should cry, and the things that should be managed must be managed. This is the fighter and talent of the daughter-in-law.

Is the picture I described strong? [snickering] [snickering] [snickering] [snickering] I can't help myself. What about you? [Cover your face] [Cover your face] [Cover your face] [Cover your face] [Cover your face]

There is an old saying: the child cries earth-shattering, the daughter cries tickling, and the daughter-in-law cries open-mindedly. (Laughter)

The subject asked her mother-in-law how to cry when she died. Good, which shows that she is still a polite daughter-in-law.

In fact, psychologically speaking, there is a term called "public clamor". As long as the feelings are normal, when the mother-in-law makes sacrifices, goes to the funeral and everyone cries together, she will cry involuntarily. Of course, if you have feelings for your mother-in-law, this crying must be heartfelt sadness.

People are not vegetation, who can be ruthless? What's more, it's an old man in his own family? Of course, if there is not much affection, and even some young daughter-in-law hates her mother-in-law's itchy teeth at school, there is no need to pretend, but it will make everyone look too fake and increase jokes.

It is true at all times, and everything comes from the heart.

There is an interesting sentence. It means that the old man died, but the old woman died. The daughter cried her mother's sincerity, the son cried her mother's earth-shattering, the uncle cried her mother-in-law's donkey fart, and the daughter-in-law cried her mother-in-law's hypocrisy. People have to think deeply, this cold joke is not cold, it tells the truth of the world and makes people cry!

If the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along day and night, they have great feelings for each other. An elderly mother-in-law knows how to cherish her daughter-in-law, and her daughter-in-law knows how to be grateful. If such a relationship, the daughter-in-law will be very sad. After all, my mother-in-law died in bliss. I will never see you again in my life. Some daughters-in-law will cry so hard that they are hoarse. I hate to part with my mother-in-law! Or it's a pity that I feel distressed that I have seeds to raise and my relatives are not there!

Some mothers-in-law don't handle the relationship with their daughter-in-law, and they will meet a snake-hearted daughter-in-law. When her mother-in-law dies, her daughter-in-law may be extremely happy! Why are you crying? Pretend to be like this even if you cry! Because, the old and sick mother-in-law has long hated it, why are you crying! People don't cry without sadness! Tears are hard to squeeze out! It's hard to smile! May all the mother-in-law in the world be kind to their daughter-in-law. May the daughter-in-law have a good mother-in-law! You can get sincere tears from others, but you have to rely on your own cultivation! Sometimes, the mother-in-law gives everything to her daughter-in-law, but the daughter-in-law is not grateful. Of course she won't be sad, how can she cry! Some daughters-in-law really appreciate her mother-in-law's kindness, but they don't cry loudly or silently in public. This kind of tears is also the most precious! My mother-in-law is also a mother!

Take care of the sheep while you are walking. As a daughter-in-law, filial piety depends on you.

In the past, female dutiful sons all covered their faces, and no one knew that you really cried and pretended to cry. Face coverings are out of fashion now. If you pretend to cry, you will be laughed at for being uneducated.

As the old saying goes, men don't cry, but they are not sad. Always thinking about her mother-in-law's good. No one will cook for you and take care of your children from now on. No one will let you warm your bed and wait on you. No one will treat your daughter-in-law as their own daughter. Think about how hard it is to meet and where you will go. You must be heartbroken and crying at the thought of this.

Generally speaking, there are several keys to mourning, such as mourning when burning paper, mourning when walking leisurely, and the key is where you will go at the last moment when closing the coffin. At that time, there was only crying and darkness, and everyone was sad. This is the time for your daughter-in-law to show her talents, and you can see that she is very filial and does not kiss or cry.

When the filial daughter is in mourning, the daughter-in-law walks in front of her daughter and is the first person to follow the filial piety. It depends on your performance to follow your filial daughter closely. The more you cry, the sadder you feel, the more distressed your husband is, the sadder you cry, and the more admired your sister-in-law and daughter are.

When my father-in-law died, one of my girlfriends just cried and couldn't get up while sitting on the ground. The two sisters-in-law couldn't get up crying, only the neighbors were covered with tears. It is said that the stepfather-in-law who is not close has such a good daughter-in-law. In fact, her mother-in-law recruited her stepfather, and she didn't like him at all. Afterwards, I asked my girlfriend if you were so sad. Are you really crying or pretending to cry? My girlfriend gave me a white look and said, whether you really cry or pretend to cry, you should set an example in public and not let others see jokes. You can't let your sister-in-law look at people through the crack of the door, you can only make them respect, and you can't make them look down. A thoughtful woman really admires you

I am a farmer, I am in the countryside, and I care about the beautiful life of our farmers.

If you are a sincere person, you will never be confused about this problem. This question is a bit stupid!

How can people get along with their mother-in-law? Once they say goodbye, do you still need to learn to think of her various benefits, and understand her motherly love, warmth, gratitude, sadness and natural tears?

Of course, if the relationship with the mother-in-law is average, or even bad, and people leave, the deceased is the biggest. Please be kind to each other. It will be true that she is your lover's mother. Don't cry deliberately! There's no point in pretending!

Isn't there an old saying? Parents died, the girl cried, sincerely, the son cried, earth-shattering, the daughter-in-law cried, and people came to be polite (go) ... This shows that the old man in the family died, relatives came to cry, the daughter-in-law also cried, others cried, you cried, others were sad, you were sad ... Others left, and you were busy with something else.