How to scold the mistress? The mistress is so disgusting that she provokes me and asks me to divorce? How can I confront her?

Many people are very angry when facing a mistress, but there is nothing they can do about the mistress. Whoever made them fall in love with the scumbag, who made the scumbag cheat again, but even so, If it weren't for the other party's charming man, how could such a thing happen? Many people will say that when dealing with a mistress, you need to lose your aura and be generous. However, when you actually meet a mistress, all magnanimity has long been forgotten. At this time, you will feel like you want to do something every minute. The urge to kill each other. However, even at this time, don't get angry and hurt your own body. Why bother if it pleases others?