Encourage yourself that you can live a good life without others

Life comes and goes, and the relationships and people we once thought were very strong may disappear in an instant.

Relationships are easy to break up, and people's hearts are easy to become cold. Please remember not to overestimate your relationship with anyone.

I remember this line in "Old Friends in Mountains and Rivers":

"Everyone can only accompany you for a certain distance, and sooner or later they will be separated."

Perhaps, this is the case between people. No matter how frequently they have interacted with each other, as time goes by, the distance and strangeness between them will gradually become farther and farther.

In this world, not everyone is willing to be with you through thick and thin.

Many times, you think that as long as you are sincere, you can get preferential treatment from others. You think that if you treat others wholeheartedly, others will treat you with all their heart.

However, reality will always tell you in a cruel way that the more seriously you take love, the more painful your heart will be; the higher your expectations for people, the greater the disappointment.

Between people, it is often just a temporary friendship. You cherish it with your life, but little do you know that in the eyes of others, you are actually nothing.

Some people, you really take them into your heart, but they can turn around and forget about you.

For some people, you persistently think that if you keep thinking about them, there will be a response, but in the end, most people just leave the party early.

In this life, who will remain unchanged to whom, and who will accompany whom forever?

After experiencing many things, you will gradually understand that people's hearts are cold and there are not many people who can treat you sincerely.

Passengers in life come and go, and no one belongs to whom. Don’t overestimate your relationship with anyone.

In the real society, few people will care about your sincerity, and few people will be grateful for your tolerance.

So, don’t show your heart to everyone, and don’t always feel that you are irreplaceable.

Actually, in the eyes of others, feelings don’t have much weight, it’s because you take it too seriously; sincere feelings don’t have much, it’s because you imagine it too well.