Every time he quarrels with her, he wants her to pay back the money. Does such a man really love this woman? Let's talk about it.

If a man asks a woman to pay him back every time he quarrels, it may be a signal that he doesn't really love her, and may just regard her as an investment or exchange. This behavior may imply that his efforts are not sincere, but purposeful pursuit of return. He may be careful and ask for every penny he pays, which shows that his character may be selfish and stingy.

In addition, if this man's awareness and care about money is too obvious, it may also indicate that his investment in feelings is not sincere enough. Love a woman should be out of concern and understanding for her, not out of the pursuit of economic returns.

Of course, this doesn't mean that money can't be mentioned in an argument, or financial problems can't be discussed. However, if this man always uses money as a means to threaten or control this woman, then it may be a means of manipulation and control, not true love.

Therefore, it is suggested that this woman should carefully consider whether this man deserves her love and trust. If she feels controlled or threatened by such behavior, she may need to consider ending the relationship and seek professional help to protect her rights and interests. If the man buys something for the woman on his own initiative, then the money doesn't need to be refunded. But if what he pursues is reward or control, then she can collect evidence and call the police to safeguard her rights and interests.