Daughter-in-law's entertainment at the end of the year makes her mother-in-law suspicious

Juanzi works as a salesman in a foreign company. Despite the mediocre performance, several big customers will invite them out to dinner at the end of the year. As a shop assistant, Juanzi understands that there are some inconveniences in social interaction. What's more, the mother-in-law who lives with her is a retired political teacher in middle school. She doesn't laugh at ordinary times, and she can't understand that her daughter-in-law is going to socialize. Therefore, Juanzi will call her every time she comes home late: "Mom, I won't go home for dinner tonight. Today, I will have dinner with my leaders and customers. " Juanzi stressed that she followed the leader, so that her mother-in-law wouldn't worry. But even so, with more times, my mother-in-law will inevitably have to take a lesson: "It is good for women to be stronger at work, but everything must have a premise, that is, take care of the family first."

Juanzi saw that the role of asking for instructions was discounted, so he had to discuss with his boss: "Can you let me attend the dinner less?" The boss is naturally unhappy: "If everyone makes such a request, can we still do sales work?" Juanzi had to bite the bullet and tell her mother-in-law a white lie: "Mom, I have to work overtime today. I don't go out to socialize. I am going to make a summary at the end of the year and make plans for next year. "

My mother-in-law has something to say.

It has to be admitted that women are more or less at a disadvantage in their work. As a woman, I also came from the age of my daughter-in-law, and the society now is different from before. Actually, I am considerate of my daughter-in-law, otherwise I wouldn't wait for her to come back late. But I still feel bad. Women's house, drinking late at night, is not reliable.

Indirect report type

Qi Feng is an ordinary civil servant, but his wife is the deputy director of the finance department of a state-owned enterprise. They have been married for almost seven years and have never had children because of their wife's work. The mother-in-law who is nearly seventy years old is getting more and more anxious. She moved to live with Qi Feng, took care of the daily life of her son and daughter-in-law, and hoped to have grandchildren as soon as possible. On weekdays, my wife, who comes home for seven or eight days a month late, spends almost half the time eating dinner all year round, and her mother-in-law complains more and more about Qi Feng. Qi Feng was caught in the middle, and it was difficult to do this, so she tentatively said to her wife, "My mother has been crying for several days. I wonder if she has done too much housework. Why don't you come back early to help your mother cook these days? " My wife hesitated: "I don't want to go to those dinners either, but if I don't go, I will inevitably be gossiped."

The next day, his wife gave Qi Feng an envelope: "I took 5000 yuan, please give it to my mother." Qi Feng refused, insisting that two people go to give gifts together. As a result, my mother-in-law was still a little unhappy with the money: "I know you are busy at work and have no time to accompany me, but you should also pay attention to your health and have children early!" " "When I returned to my room, my wife frowned." Qi Feng, you should help me tell your mother more about my work in the future, lest she don't understand and blame me. "

Qi Feng wanted to think, and found a time to talk to his mother about his wife's work. Come on, it really works. On one occasion, Qi Feng came home from work and heard her mother-in-law talking on the phone in her room. ".She is not easy. If it weren't for her, how could I live in such a big house and drive such a good car? "

Husband has something to say.

My wife has a lot of social activities, but in fact, she feels uneasy. She is worried that she will suffer if she drinks too much. She was also worried that my mother would find out. Both of them are unhappy and feel that the other party doesn't understand themselves. As a man, facing the two most important women, you can only do more coordination.

To save the country by circuitous means [the theory put forward by China collaborators to defend their surrender in War of Resistance against Japanese Aggression]

Grandma is an ordinary grandmother. Since his wife died, she has lived with her son and daughter-in-law My son is a middle school PE teacher and my daughter-in-law works in a foreign company. Grandma usually helps to take care of her granddaughter and cook. Grandma recently noticed that her daughter-in-law "worked overtime" more and more times, and her son seemed a little unhappy, so he recited to the old ladies in the yard. Everyone said, "Does your daughter-in-law have a problem?" Grandma was under great pressure and didn't dare to ask her son, so she asked her daughter-in-law, "What have you been up to recently?" The daughter-in-law probably guessed her gra

Daughter-in-law is very clever, let her son take grandma and granddaughter out for a walk. Especially when the daughter-in-law wants to go out for entertainment, she will say to her husband, "Why don't you take your mother out for dinner tonight? I don't have to cook and wash dishes at home. I came back late and couldn't help. " Coincidentally, my daughter-in-law once ate in the restaurant where my grandmother and her son ate. The company's daughter-in-law invited the boss of a cultural company, a Hong Kong native, who attached great importance to family ties. The daughter-in-law took her grandmother to the private room and introduced her to everyone: "This is my mother. She is very supportive of my work." The boss in Hong Kong thanked her solemnly and gave her a glass of wine.

Now grandma is not only careless, but also tells her daughter-in-law to pay attention to her health and work hard.

My daughter-in-law has something to say

The lives of three women, not to mention the biological mother of her husband under the same roof. There's nothing I can do to go out to socialize at work. As a woman, as a daughter-in-law and wife, I feel a little guilty that I can't take care of my husband and mother-in-law's daily life. So I want to arrange some activities for my husband and mother-in-law with the mentality of making up for the family. Otherwise, you will always be confident that others don't understand you and you will feel very uncomfortable.

Advanced bedding type

As a post-80s daughter-in-law, Su Lan really can't understand the post-50s mother-in-law. Su Lan still remembers this time in 2008, because there were many parties and dinners at the end of the year, her mother-in-law quarreled with herself more than once. Even once, my mother-in-law shouted to move out by herself. Although I don't understand, in order to reduce family conflicts, or at least avoid her husband's dilemma, Su Lan thought of a way to play a play in advance this time.

From June 5438 to October 2009 10, Su Lan sighed in front of her mother-in-law: "The economic situation is so bad now. The technology department next door just fired a master's degree a few days ago. I'm just a junior college student. What can I do? " After chanting for a long time, my mother-in-law showed a worried expression and began to often ask: "Did your company fire people recently?" Su Lan frowned and muttered, "I was fired again. It's hard to find a job now. What can I do? "

165438+ 10, Su Lan deliberately pretended to be unhappy and went home: "What a broken company! People always work overtime! I really don't want to go to work! " Hearing this, the mother-in-law quickly comforted her: "It's hard to find a job now. When I watch the news, I always say how many people are fighting for a job. You should cherish this job! " 65438+February, dinners and parties followed. As long as Su Lan calls home and says that she will work overtime tonight, her mother-in-law will give her full support. She also helped Su Lan persuade her son, "Your wife's job is not easy, so don't give her any trouble!"

My mother-in-law has something to say.

In fact, I know that my daughter-in-law may not be fired or have so many classes to add. Think about having dinner with colleagues and classmates when you are a girl. This is a very happy thing. Besides, I have a daughter who works as a daughter-in-law in someone else's house. How can I not know that it is not easy to be a daughter-in-law? So I pretended not to know, but it was only two months at the end of the year.

Summary-mutual understanding is king.

In fact, there is not necessarily a contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but something that needs constant communication. Eat drink man woman, parents are short-sighted. It's all trivial things that cause acne. Daughter-in-law has a dinner party tonight, and mother-in-law has finished housework for the first or tenth time this month. Don't forget that your mother-in-law is very tired and worried, and her mother-in-law should also remember that sometimes her daughter-in-law can't help herself at work. Only mutual understanding is the king of a smooth life.