After middle age, what kind of circle of friends will lower your level?

When people are young, they never have the wisdom of middle age. Look at many middle-aged people around us. They seem to look down on everything.

They know that nothing will stay by their side for a long time, so they don't expect too much. Instead, they feel that family harmony and parents' health are their greatest wealth.

But it is different when you are young. Young people are full of expectations for this world, because in their eyes, the future is unknown, and since it is unknown, it is full of challenges.

I will express my opinions on everything at any time, nowadays. Social networks are very developed, and there are more and more ways for people to express their thoughts and opinions.

many people like to make friends, bask in happiness, bask in mood, bask in travel, bask in babies, advertise and canvass? Wonders are everywhere.

some people regard their circle of friends as a place to vent, but it is true that it is their own circle of friends, and of course they are distracted by what they think.

However, many people like to post anything in their circle of friends, which is very bad. Since it is your circle of friends, you have the right to post whatever you think, but you should also consider the mood of people in your circle of friends.

If you send a friend who speaks ill of mulberry, many people may be seated accordingly and wonder if you are scolding him.

Sometimes you send a circle of friends that is particularly sad, and others come to comfort you. You may think that others are pretentious, or you send a circle of friends that shows off your wealth, but you don't think so, and others will think that you are smelly and ostentatious.

It's nothing like this when you are young. After all, it's normal to be young and like to express your thoughts and vent your heart. But in middle age, there is no need to regard the circle of friends as a trash can to vent their feelings.

it's ok to complain occasionally, but it really makes people feel that you are full of negative energy.

When people reach middle age, they should have more responsibilities on their shoulders. You should be mature and steady. Have you ever seen a mature and steady man who makes friends every day when he has nothing to do?

It's normal to encounter something unsatisfactory. You should learn to solve it slowly when you encounter something unsatisfactory, instead of complaining in a circle of friends. You might as well think about how to solve the problems you face when you have time to complain in a circle of friends.

to put it bluntly, how many people really care about your complaints? People in the circle of friends are watching you, and none of them really care about you.

If something really happens to you, your true friend will definitely call and ask you what's wrong and if you need help.

There's no need to show your jokes to friends who like you.

Unless others have the same idea as you, few people will really finish reading your circle of friends. Everyone is very busy, and no one has time to talk with you.

When people reach middle age, don't send friends around. No one really wants to read those chicken soup for the soul, which will not be passed on to the whole family and will guarantee a long life. Nobody cares what your life has become. Some people may be waiting for you to make jokes.

You reveal that you are not doing well, and you can only let others see your jokes, which is not good for you.

Many of us are easily controlled by emotions and firmly controlled by those bad emotions.

But we should know that if we are always dominated by our bad emotions, we are doomed to fail, because successful people, or mature people, all know how to control their emotions and not let themselves be influenced by them.

You have to understand that sometimes if you encounter a bad mood or something, you should calm down and solve it, instead of setting up a circle of friends.

this will not only make you look ignorant, but also make others think that you are idle.

Some people say that they can understand you especially, or that they can empathize with you, but they are just lip service. Don't take it too seriously.

people who really care about you and can really feel the same way will never just talk in a circle of friends, but will really accompany you.

the people closest to you should be your family, not those insignificant people in your circle of friends.

Mo Mo:

Don't waste precious time on making friends. You might as well spend more time with your family if you have time. How long have you not spent with your children?

how long has it been since you visited your parents? How long has it been since you took a walk with your partner, watched a movie, or spent time alone?

People who express their feelings by making friends were really comfortable at that time, but later, you will find that you are actually naive. The circle of friends vented, and it passed?

no, that thing is still there, and it will still be stuck in your heart. It doesn't make any sense.

When people reach middle age, they should see more people around them, pay more attention to their lives and enjoy their own lives.

Get in touch with friends and things that can calm you down.

don't let yourself become impetuous as you were when you were young, and don't solve everything with a circle of friends. This is a very childish move.