Don't be too lofty Talk about it.

As the saying goes, "People are more valuable in knowing themselves."

Be able to clearly locate your position, comprehensively evaluate your ability and treat yourself objectively.

Such people have "scales" in their hearts.

What you can and can't do.

Be able to recognize yourself.

However, some people can't do it. They don't know their true level, what they want to do, and always overestimate themselves.

In fact, as a person, don't overestimate yourself and take yourself seriously.

Otherwise, it will only make you look down on yourself and others look down on yourself.

02

Don't overestimate your ability.

Never overestimate your ability. Some people overestimate themselves and lead to failure.

Is to enable us to put ourselves in a correct position and know ourselves clearly.

My cousin is in the building materials business and is one of the best local companies.

But in recent years, my uncle is bent on investing in the catering industry and has plans to switch to a restaurant.

Uncle ignored his family's obstruction and took money to open a restaurant, but his business was bleak.

In less than a month, it went bankrupt.

There is a good saying: "No Jin Gangzuan, no porcelain work."

In other words, if you don't have that great ability, don't do anything beyond your ability.

Uncle thinks that he has more than ten years of experience in building materials business, and investing in the catering industry should be successful.

However, interlacing is like a mountain, so we must not make a decision easily without in-depth study.

If a person can't realize his own ability, it will make things worse and lose what he has.

03

Do not overestimate your importance.

In this world, no matter who leaves, the sun rises as usual and the earth runs as usual.

But some people don't understand this truth.

I met a female leader at work, which was particularly strong.

All my men are particularly afraid of her, including me.

The nickname given to her by the following staff is "Teacher Extinction".

Because she is an old employee of the company, she likes to show off all day, thinking that the whole world revolves around her.

However, this year I fell out with my boss because of disagreement.

The boss wants to carry out reforms, but the female leaders don't cooperate.

The two men were deadlocked for a long time without compromise.

Female leaders also went on strike not to go to work to show their determination.

Nobody cares about the company's business, and the boss is in a hurry.

Other companies have hired some people to take charge of this business.

The female leader took a leisurely vacation at home and returned to the company only to find that she lost her job because of her willfulness.

Liu said in "Three-body": "Weakness and ignorance are not obstacles to survival, but arrogance."

People pretend to be lofty because they can't recognize their position.

I think I am the most important and indispensable.

Unexpectedly, I can be replaced at any time.

04

Don't overestimate your status.

I have read such a sentence in a book: "Don't accept others' kindness to you easily. "

One person is kind to another.

There are only two possibilities.

First, the other party really wants to be nice to you.

The other is that he may be interested in you.

My neighbor, Uncle Ma, is the leader of the company.

When he was in office, people often came to visit him in an endless stream.

On uncle horse's birthday, the hotel held a birthday party and a wedding.

After that, Uncle Ma was still lying in a coma in the hospital because of an accident.

Few people come to visit.

His friends, who call each other brothers, stayed away from him at the most dangerous time for fear of implicating themselves.

It turns out that those people used to be nice to him because of his high status.

Ma Shu didn't see the true colors of those people until he woke up.

People always take their place in others' minds too seriously.

It is better to recognize the reality as soon as possible.

05

Don't overestimate your perseverance.

There is a popular saying on the Internet: "Never set up a flag casually, or you will hit your face in minutes."

I believe many people have had this experience.

"I want to lose weight and become lightning."

"I swear, I will never stay up late again."

"This year, I must save money."

Wait a minute.

But the result is, "How to lose weight if you don't eat much? I will finish this meal and then start to lose weight. "

"I slept after watching this episode of TV series, slept after brushing the video, and didn't sleep for an hour or two."

"buy buy to buy! Isn't the meaning of working to earn money just to enjoy life? "

The flag is set up year after year, but it cannot be completed year after year.

All these show that you should never overestimate your perseverance.

It is human nature to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. To put it simply, everyone likes to be lazy.

So how can we change this situation?

First of all, give yourself enough confidence to believe that you can do it.

Secondly, don't give yourself too many tasks. When you want everything, you often get nothing.

Finally, don't leave all the problems to "persistence", do your best, do what you can, and live every day well.

06

Mr. Lu Xun said: "I do dissect others from time to time, but I dissect myself more ruthlessly."

If a person wants to grow better, he must have self-knowledge.

Don't overestimate your ability.

Because the ruler has his strengths and weaknesses, everyone has his own strengths and weaknesses, and they are not all comprehensive.

Do not overestimate your importance.

In this world, no one is unique, and anyone can replace you.

Don't overestimate your status.

Someone is nice to you, just giving you an identity and a position.

Sincerity or insincerity, you should learn to tell for yourself.

Don't overestimate your perseverance.

One step at a time, learn self-discipline and be a modest person, so as to go further.

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Be a man, never take yourself too seriously.

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