A philosophical talk about life

1. There is no perfect choice once and for all in this world. You can't have both flowers and fruits. You can't get all the benefits. You should learn to weigh the pros and cons, learn to give up something, and then you can get something. You should learn to accept the deformity and sadness of life, and then, be calm. Because this is life.

2, life can't be smooth sailing, there are successes and failures; There are happiness and loss. If we take these ups and downs in life too seriously, then life will never be calm for us and there will never be laughter. There must be a pursuit in life, and the temporary lack of it will not hinder the happiness of daily life. Therefore, having a normal mind is an essential lubricant for life.

3, people are alive, there is no need to fight for everything-"water is clear, there is no fish, people are clear, there is no friend." Struggle with family, win, family is gone; Fight with your lover, win, and your feelings are weak; Fight with friends, win, friendship is gone. What you strive for is reason, what you lose is emotion and what you hurt is yourself. Black is black, white is white, let time prove it.

4, at any time, don't look down on others ... When the bird is alive, eat ants; After the bird died, the ants ate it. A tree can make a million matches, and a match can burn a million trees. So don't look down on anyone!

When you look down on others, they just don't care about you! Flowers, colorful, are just a flash in the pan: trees, simple and ordinary, can last forever. Stay alive and keep a low profile!

5. Look at the world with a pure heart and live with a happy heart. No matter how beautiful the garden is, there are unclean things; No matter how happy a life is, there are unpleasant things. There are always advantages and disadvantages in this world. Where your attention is, your heart is there.

Look at the world with a pure heart, and the noise of the world of mortals will not shake your heart; Live happily, and the disappointments in life will not affect your mood. Heaven and hell, just between a thought.

6. Do things yourself and judge behind your back. Sometimes we pay too much attention to the voice in our ears, make indecisive decisions, act timidly, and finally tire our hearts and spirits.

Even if it is done well, there will be people pointing fingers; Even if you are in a mess, you can still hear hymns. The only thing that can save you is yourself. You don't have to dwell on external judgment, fall into the eyes of others and distort yourself to please the world.