A tea maker talks about his mood.

First, tea is just two postures, floating and sinking; Tea drinkers have only two postures, picking up and putting down. Life is like tea, calm when sinking, indifferent when floating, affordable and needs to be put down.

Second, when you are calm, you can hear your own voice. Perhaps, what you are crazy about is not what you really want, but just accommodating others or society; Perhaps, you are worried, and you don't really want to love or should love, but you don't want to for a while. When you sit down and watch the flowers bloom and fall, you will see clearly. Smiling at flowers is a kind of quiet happiness; It is a comfortable feeling to watch the flowers fall quietly.

Third, learning to accept disability is the maturity of life. No one is perfect, and regret is the normal state of life. In life, there are successes and failures, and there are gatherings and departures. No one can be blessed, absolute monarch. You can't have your cake and eat it, which is the helplessness of life. Mature people can face all imperfections indifferently, so they don't insist, try their best and live with fate. Pursuing perfection is a beautiful ideal, and accepting imperfection is a beautiful mentality.

You should always forgive all beings, no matter how bad they are, even if they have hurt you, you must let go to get real happiness.

5. The proper place in life is not close to money or power, but close to the soul; True happiness is neither wealth nor all the best, but a clear conscience.

6. We can't control other people's thoughts; We can't force others to do anything. The only thing I can do is to try my best to do my own thing, take the road under my feet and live my life according to my own principles. Even if someone mistreats you, time will not mistreat you, and life will not mistreat you! If you say that you have been wronged, it is also your imbalance.